We usually meet about twice a month, but since I’ve been busy with various things this month, I told her we could meet again after the New Year. She replied that she was looking forward to seeing me again next year. (Our last exchange was around the middle of last month.)
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Then my business trip was suddenly canceled, so it looked like we could meet this month after all. I contacted her last week, but she still hasn’t replied.
She’s one of my favorites, so I’d like to avoid things ending like this. Do I just have to wait for her response?
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Every now and then, I hear women say they got a new LINE account because they failed to transfer their data when changing phones.
They apparently try to find their previous contacts through search and add them again, but if you had your account set so you wouldn’t appear in searches, that may be why nothing happened.
I don’t know what happened, but it’s possible some kind of trouble came up.
Of course, “trouble” could mean anything from avoiding meeting for a while because she just had cosmetic surgery, to being hospitalized or getting into an accident.
> I told her I was busy with various things this month and suggested meeting again after the New Year, and she replied that she was looking forward to seeing me again next year.
If you had exchanged a lot of messages besides just making plans to meet, it can feel like a hassle to keep messaging when you won’t be seeing each other until next year, right?
Why not try sending her a few tens of thousands of yen through LINE Pay?
I feel like you’d at least get a “thank you” in response.
For example, you could send her a Starbucks gift card every day.
(Though it won’t have much effect if she doesn’t use Starbucks.)
I think it’s also important to show that you’re thinking of her. A little thoughtfulness goes a long way.
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Even though he used to reply right away… I’d say there’s about a 90% chance you should give up, but why not try sending him a couple more LINE messages?
If that doesn’t work, move on. There are thousands of women out there.
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I’m Aya, a female member.
There’s a chance he found it too much trouble and is leaving you hanging. But if he usually replies right away, it might be worth messaging him on LINE one more time. If he still doesn’t read it, move on.
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I’m Dai, a male member.
No matter how close you may be, things can sometimes end suddenly.
I recommend letting go of any lingering feelings and moving on to someone new.
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I’m Osaka, a male member.
Since you agreed to meet again after the New Year, it’s probably difficult to suddenly ask to meet now just because it suits you.
As for the week that’s passed, I think you may as well assume things have ended—but you probably already realize that, don’t you? For now, just stay quiet and contact her as planned next year. Consider it lucky if she replies.
You call her your favorite girl, yet the last time you contacted her was around the middle of last month. That’s a pretty thin connection, lol. If you like her, where are her feelings, circumstances, and pride supposed to fit into all this? More than the question itself, I find myself questioning the meaning behind this relationship, lol.
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I’m Kazu, a male member.
We’re not mind readers, so we can’t know for sure. But if she hasn’t replied for about a week, it does feel like she may have decided to move on.
She may have simply forgotten to reply, so I’d suggest sending one more message in a normal, casual tone. If there’s still no response, it’s probably best to move on.
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I’m in Seattle.
That’s a shame.
Sending follow-up messages will only annoy her more, so try to wait as patiently as you can.
Until the end of the year, send no more than three messages—once a week. If your budget allows, offer double the allowance in the final message.
If that still doesn’t work, let it go.
I feel like there’s a 75% chance it’s already over. Attractive women usually have plenty of other men interested in them.
Make offers to other women.
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