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Dec 12, 2021 19:37
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I’m Shingo Lee (Shingori), a columnist.
Far from being unrelated, relationships actually tend to last longer with girls who become intimate right away.
🏅 倶楽部女性のご主人様に潤いを！
Mパパ、永遠の交際継続中！
B1タイプ〜A寄りパパです！
会う度大人は嫌と感じる方………ご相談ください。
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As a result, that may be the tendency.
Compatibility is the most important thing—especially sexual compatibility—but I feel that the girls I enjoy having meals and conversations with, and feel comfortable spending a long time with without getting tired, also tend to be a very good match in bed.
It’s not really about how soon or how many days it takes. If I can enjoy doing anything with someone, I don’t get bored of her. But if I feel like something is missing without sex, I eventually start to lose interest.
Paper Airplane
🏅 あなたの味方
お役に立てれば幸いです。
Age: Private
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Maezawa from the CEO’s office here.
When it comes to intimacy, I feel that what matters more than how many dates you go on before becoming intimate is whether the experience itself is amazing.
That said, even if the intimacy is just average, a relationship can continue if the person is fun to talk to.
But unless one of you is having a good time or there’s some other appealing quality that keeps you drawn to each other, I don’t think it will last very long.
A～Dまで一通りオファーの経験あり、多くても月１程度でLINEはスケジュール調整のみ、スマートに無理なく長期交際するスタイルです。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
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I’m Dai, a male member.
I think sexual compatibility plays a bigger role in keeping things going.
But rather than getting bored, there’s always a lingering feeling that a woman who was intimate with me so quickly would probably do the same with other men just as quickly.
The male mind is complicated.
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This is Osaka, one of the respondents.
That, lol. When it comes to dating or marriage, that may be true, but in this kind of relationship, someone who’s “finally ready for an adult relationship” is actually a yellow flag.
I’m just speaking from my own experience and gut feeling, though. I won’t spell it all out, but if you’re focusing on that particular point, that’s how I see it, lol.
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I’m Kazu, a male member.
I don’t think there’s any particular difference.
🏅 大阪の昼寝引きこもりトレーダー
スペ90以下のひとを厚く囲い込み、一生面倒見て実質一夫多妻で大切にしたい独身です。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
Seattle.
If he says “finally, at last,” that probably means you’ve already enjoyed several dinner-only dates together, so he may be less likely to cut things off.
After that, it probably comes down to how enjoyable the intimacy is—or how much he enjoys talking with you.