Sorry if this is similar to previous questions, but I have another question about gifts.
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I’m planning to meet my papa on the 23rd. Since he gives me presents like sweets and body-care products every time we meet, I was thinking of giving him something in return for Christmas. However, after reading the previous question, should I really avoid giving him any gift?
Also, he likes sweets, so would it be okay to give him a small box of treats or a Starbucks gift card through LINE Gift?
Thank you in advance.
I’m in Seattle.
Gift cards are a great idea. I often send them to women myself.
If it’s sweets, a small amount that can be eaten quickly is best.
A massage, kind words, or a letter—something heartfelt is all I need.
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Buy her a cake and eat it together at a hotel. Feed each other bites with an “Ahh~♡” and so on. Even something this simple is more than enough.
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It’s Joe.
As I’ve said a few times, the most important thing about a gift is the thought behind it.
What someone appreciates—or finds difficult to accept—will vary from papa to papa. Thinking about that is part of showing you care; in other words, that’s what makes it a gift.
For example, even if he likes sweets, if your papa has a family, he may not be able to take them home. In that respect, as you suggest, tickets might be a safe choice.
For a papa with a family, I think something physically small and not problematic if he already has one is generally best. Personally, I’d be very happy to receive pens and would take good care of them.
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I’m Dai, a male member.
I just don’t think gifts are something you should ask someone in advance what they want.
Of course, I’m always happy to receive something chosen with me in mind, but it does make me start wondering about various other things.
For example, please don’t assume that because you gave me a gift, I’m obviously expected to return the favor.
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I’m Fuu, a column writer.
How about cake—or some other treat you can enjoy together in the room?
Personally, I’d be happier with a gift of affection or attention than something material.
After getting into bed, I’d love to hear things like:
“For your Christmas present, I’ll do whatever you want today.”
“You can do whatever you like with me.”
“You can finish inside me as much as you want from behind.”
“I’ll give you a blowjob to clean you up.”
↑ Just some of Fuu’s fantasies（笑)
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I often receive gifts from girls who aren’t my favorites.
But that doesn’t make them a higher priority. If anything, it has the opposite effect on me.
I’m sure they’re not doing it because they’re afraid I’ll cut things off, but that’s just slightly how it comes across. I appreciate the gifts, but they don’t make me like them more. If anything, they might lower my impression of them a tiny bit…
—Paper Airplane
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I’m Osaka, a male member.
Even when I’m asked, “Do you want a present? How about this?” I end up saying I don’t need one. Then I start thinking about how troublesome it’ll be to take it home afterward, lol.
But when I actually receive one, I’m happy. Even if it’s a hassle to carry home, I’m still glad. If you’re asking here whether it’s okay not to give a present, then saying you don’t need one may just be the opposite of how you really feel—a kind of polite front. And if it genuinely comes from the heart, I’m even happier. I appreciate the feeling of gratitude, haha.
Some people may say odd things out of embarrassment, but I don’t think they actually dislike it, lol.
“So much trouble…” Well, that goes both ways, haha.
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I’m Kazu, a male member.
If you get something each time you meet, I think that’s perfectly fine. If she often goes to Starbucks, a Starbucks gift card might be a good option.
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