I can hardly find time to see my papa (a male supporter), so when he asked, “I’m the only one you’re seeing, right?” I replied, “That’s right,” but I actually have several papas.
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He’s being so persistent. Should I keep telling him, “You’re the only papa I have,” or should I say, “I actually see other papas for dinner because I need a little more allowance”?
I don’t think telling him would lead to any increase in my allowance, so I’m wondering if I should just keep it to myself…
But I’d hate for him to get jealous and go somewhere else.
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That’s a complicated situation.
Even if you have several other papas, it might make things easier going forward to at least say, “I have a boyfriend.”
Keeping up the lie and coordinating your schedule from now on sounds like it would be difficult.
So you also don’t like the idea of your papa seeing other people, huh? You might actually feel less stressed if he had a few others as well.
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I’m Joe.
You don’t need to tell him, because that papa (a male supporter) is only checking the details and doesn’t actually want to know the truth.
I’ll leave you with these sayings: “A lie can be a useful tool” and “Ignorance is bliss.”
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I’m Dai, a male member.
So I’m the only one who’s a papa (a male supporter), huh?
If you don’t want to lose this person, you’ll need to handle him skillfully.
The fact that he keeps pressing you suggests that he may be suspicious.
This is your chance to show your skills as a papa-katsu woman. Good luck.
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I’m Taro, a male member.
If she’s asking something like that here, I’d assume she’s doing this as a business, so the answer is probably “I wouldn’t tell her.” There’s really no benefit to telling her, right?
I think there are two types of men and women who meet through dating clubs: those who prefer one-on-one relationships and those who feel more comfortable seeing multiple people. I think the latter are more common among experienced people, while beginners tend to prefer the former. I wonder which type she is. If she’s experienced, you should probably be able to have a frank conversation with her, though…
In my own experience, more women seemed to decide for themselves whether to be completely honest, rather than changing how they responded based on the other person’s reactions.
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I’m Osaka, a male member.
If you’ve already lied, I think it’s best to stick with the story. If you come clean, he probably won’t get jealous—there’s a good chance his feelings will cool, or he’ll be so shocked that he’ll walk away.
Still, dealing with scheduling, coordinating your time, and answering a papa’s endless questions must be exhausting, so I’m sure it’s stressful. And if you’re lying to your other papas too, it’ll take even more effort to keep everything straight, lol.
If the allowance stays the same while the effort keeps increasing, you may start thinking, “Wait, what am I doing?” lol
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You don’t need to tell him.
It’s better for the relationship to continue on good terms if you both remain unaware. The same probably applies to the men you’re seeing.
Also, if you both have multiple partners, there’s no real way for either of you to find out—or get caught—so I don’t think you need to worry about it.
—Paper Airplane
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