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Dec 11, 2021 09:46
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Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Fuu, a column writer.
If you don’t want things to end,
try saying it tactfully at first, without ruining the mood:
“Please don’t touch my face.”
“Please don’t put your weight on me—I’d be embarrassed if my makeup got messed up.”
Something like that might work.
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Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe staff
Maezawa from the CEO’s Office here.
I don’t think having your face held down or having someone put their weight on you is normal. I’m not sure what kind of play this is, but if you’re uncomfortable with it, I think you should clearly tell him.
That said, calling him out could ruin the mood and bring the relationship to an end. If you want to break things off, you should be firm.
If you’d still like to continue seeing him as long as he changes, I’d suggest gently bringing it up before things start and asking him not to do it again.
Other
I’m Rin, a female SALON member.
I’ve never had anything like that done to me, and I haven’t put anything in either.
Why not try telling him you don’t like it?
Other
I don’t put anything like that in, and no one sits on my face either.
I think you should speak up about anything you don’t like or feel uncomfortable with.
Marika
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Kazu, a male member.
I’m sure none of you are holding women’s faces down or putting your weight on them, either.