Even if you fall for someone through papa-katsu, I think you can still enjoy the relationship, but I’m greedy and admire the kind of relationship Win has.
When it comes to moving the relationship forward, I’d like to know how to tell the difference between a PJ who falls in love through papa-katsu and a genuinely devoted PJ.
Are there any personality traits or characteristics that can help distinguish between them?
I’m BB7.
A devoted PJ… that’s way too scary.
It might be fine if you’re both single, but as a married person like me, I’m too terrified to get involved.
Some of the emotionally unstable types can be very devoted, though.
You might get experiences like being stalked, having knives involved, or having them show up at your workplace.
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I’m Osaka, a male member.
What’s the difference between gacha-love and gachi-love? Are they really two separate choices? I honestly don’t get why people feel the need to worry about that lol.
At least in my own life, I know I’m the protagonist, so I understand wanting to create a world that revolves around you or choose people who fit into your story—that kind of ego. But the other person is the protagonist too lol. Fantasizing is fine, of course, but in real life, I’d rather stay grounded and keep my eyes open lol.
If you enjoy two protagonists trying to one-up each other or playing supporting roles, then I guess that’s fine. But isn’t it enough to simply be together because you enjoy the time you share? If that works for both of you, that’s more than enough. And if they want to keep seeing you, you should just be grateful.
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I’m Flagmaker, a columnist.
Nobody gets attached—whether it’s a gacha crush or genuine feelings. I make a reasonable effort and go along with things because I’m paid an allowance. That’s all.
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I’m Rin, a female member of SALON.
I can’t say this applies to everyone, and it also depends on the man they’re seeing, but perhaps they tend to have:
- Little experience with men
- A trusting nature
- Been raised in an overprotective environment
- Started papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) out of curiosity
They may also mistake kindness for something more. I think they’re simply inexperienced with the ways of the world.
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I’m Dai, a male member.
I think it depends on the questioner’s financial situation and how attractive he is as a man. To begin with, it would probably be difficult unless he’s still reasonably popular in his private life.
Also, women who are genuinely looking for love don’t fall for someone right after meeting him, so I think you’d need a relationship where you see each other at least once a week.
That may decrease eventually, but for the time being, the question is whether you can prepare an allowance of at least ¥200,000 a month.
On top of that, the woman would need to be someone who wants to focus on just one partner. Occasionally, you’ll see profiles at the club that say this.
(She wouldn’t be my target, so I wouldn’t make her an offer, though, haha.)
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I’m in Seattle.
Women who seem popular are bound to have tons of guys seriously pursuing them, so staying exclusive is impossible.
I’d rather cherish someone who doesn’t seem particularly popular but really fits my type, and stay with her for several years.
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