Tips Dec 11, 2021 00:08

There’s a man who says things like, “I want to leave my wife and marry you,” “Marry me as soon as you graduate from college,” “I think we’re compatible in so many ways,” and “I don’t want to imagine you being with another man” every time, but only before and during sex. This isn’t genuine love, right? If he’s seriously in love with me, I’m thinking of cutting things off... Is he just saying it because he gets carried away during sex?

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Fuu
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Age: 50s 👨 Male Universe member
I’m Fuu, a column writer. If he doesn’t normally say things like that and isn’t being persistent, just take it as part of the play and let it slide. If he starts saying it regularly too, I think it’s fine to end things.
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I’m BB7. Once he finishes, his feelings cool off. That’s all there is to it.
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ダイ
A~Dまで一通りオファーの経験あり、多くても月1程度でLINEはスケジュール調整のみ、スマートに無理なく長期交際するスタイルです。
Age: 50s 👨 Male Universe member
I’m Dai, a male member. I don’t think I’m genuinely in love. I get caught up in the moment before sex and end up saying things like that, but afterward I come back to my senses and return to my family. Please be patient and watch over me kindly.
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負け男
🏅 プロおぢ。ほんとはプロパパと名乗りたいけど名乗るほどの実力がない名古屋の汚っさんです。
Age: Private 👨 Male Universe member
I would never say things like that to my favorite PJ. So it’s not like I’m genuinely in love or anything. I have two monthly partners who make sex incredibly exciting. *Neither of them is what I’d call my “ace.”* With those two monthly partners, we have sex while repeatedly telling each other: “I love you so much.” “I love you.” We both understand that it makes things more exciting. I would never, ever tell an ace—or a former ace or semi-ace I truly care about—that I love her. I can barely even say, “I like you.” Loser Man
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紙ひこうき
🏅 倶楽部女性のご主人様に潤いを!
Mパパ、永遠の交際継続中! B1タイプ〜A寄りパパです! 会う度大人は嫌と感じる方………ご相談ください。
Age: Private 👨 Male Universe member
That’s right. Let’s pout back with, “You’re only like that before we do it.” Paper Airplane
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This is Ayase Nana☆ I think that’s how he gets himself worked up. Anyone can tell it’s a lie when he only says those things during H, so why does he keep prattling on in the middle of it? He probably mistakenly thinks women will get swept up by those ridiculous lines.
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I’m Taro, a male member. If he doesn’t say it when he’s sober, I’d assume it’s just an act. Still, he really does come out with some long speeches in the middle of it. I feel like telling him, “Stop talking and move your hips properly.”
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I’m Aya, a female member. You’re the type who gets excited by your own lines. Let’s just leave it at that.
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Exactly. Don’t take it literally. Saying things like that is simply part of what spices up sex. Marika
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