A question for the women here: I often see people on Twitter and elsewhere saying they avoid carrying ID when doing papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan).
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Do you also avoid carrying ID? My Suica and credit card are combined, so I always carry my credit card when I go out. I also often head to meetings after going to the hospital, so I always carry my health insurance card.
If you’ve ever experienced any trouble because you were carrying identification, or have found ways to avoid carrying it or prevent it from being seen, I’d appreciate hearing about them.
I’m Dai, a male member.
Especially for a first adult relationship (intimate), I usually take my belongings into the bathroom with me when I shower so they can’t be rummaged through.
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I’m Aya, a female member.
I’ve never really felt worried. Since it’s a dating club rather than an app, I felt reassured knowing that I had some idea of who the other person was.
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It’s scary to think about your personal information being exposed, but it’s pretty difficult not to carry it with you.
In my case, when a woman leaves her bag behind to take a shower, I gently say:
“You might want to take your valuables with you to the bathroom. I appreciate that you trust me, though.”
That one little line works like magic—it immediately brings you closer to her. I highly recommend it to all the papas out there.
Makeo
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I’m in Seattle.
For first meetings, I used to take my bag with me right next to the bathroom.
With someone I’ve been seeing regularly, I trust them, so I wouldn’t mind even if they took money from it—though that would never happen.
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I normally bring it with me.
If you’re worried, take your bag into the bathroom when you shower.
Other than that, you should be fine as long as you don’t get blackout drunk, right?
Marika
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