Do men actually prefer slim figures or curvier ones?
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When men like a curvier figure, do they compliment a woman by saying, “You’re nicely curvy”? Many curvier women are also self-conscious about their bodies, and men generally don’t comment much on a woman’s figure, so I was wondering. Have any of you ever said anything about a woman’s body?
I’m Aya, a female member.
This might be unusual here, but my papa prefers slim girls. I think that’s why he’s seeing me. He says he doesn’t care whether I have much of a chest—he just likes feeling how slender I am when he hugs me. Some people are like that too.
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I’m Kazu, a male member.
I’m also into curvier women. I’m not really attracted to very slim women.
I never bring up a woman’s body type myself. When she says she’s “too big,” I usually don’t actually think she is, so I tell her, “I have no complaints about your figure as it is.”
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I’m in Seattle.
I like curvy women. As long as your height minus your weight is 90 or less, that works for me.
I’m careful with my wording. Saying, “Someone like you is my type,” usually gets the message across.
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I’m Fuu, a columnist.
Height minus 110, give or take 5 kg, is about right.
I like women who aren’t too thin or too heavy, preferably with a defined waist.
I compliment people’s figures positively—I’ll say they look beautiful, for example. But I avoid words like “chubby,” since they can sound negative.
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I’m Tetsu, a male member.
I’m definitely into curvy women (lol). Body shape is part of someone’s individuality, so I never comment on it when meeting someone for the first time. If we’ve met a few times and I notice something like, “Huh, have you lost weight?” I might mention their figure.
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I’m Dai, a male member.
I’ve never said anything directly to a woman.
Whether someone is slim or curvy, I think it really comes down to how extreme it is.
Personally, I just can’t handle someone who’s too thin. Especially when they’re so bony that I can feel their bones during sex—it hurts, so I’d rather avoid that.
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