It’s been almost a week since I registered, but I still haven’t received an offer.
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I previously asked about selfie photos:
https://universe-club.jp/help/questions/view/10114
Thank you all for your kind replies at the time.
After several of you expressed concerns, I deleted the photo of my motorcycle. If I happen to meet someone who likes motorcycles, I thought it would be nice to talk about that hobby then. As for people who are good with cameras, as Mr. Maezawa mentioned, I gave up on that idea because it seemed difficult to meet them in person—or rather, when I tried contacting one, he had a lot of personal demands regarding photographing women.
Since it’s so close to Christmas, I suppose everyone already has someone they’re interested in, so I can understand the result. Of course, I realize that I simply wasn’t appealing enough.
I have an ordinary-looking face and a very plain profile, so I’m well aware that receiving an offer is nothing more than a pipe dream. I’m truly grateful to Universe Club for letting me dream and for serving as a bridge between wonderful men and women.
I’d like to ask, although I’m embarrassed to do so: how do men feel when a woman sends them a “You seem wonderful” signal?
Even when I know that a man is far above my level, I can’t help thinking, after looking at his profile, that I’d really like to meet him. Even though I know it will never happen.
I’m sure you may think I’m beneath your level, that I’m sending “You seem wonderful” to everyone, or that I’m trying too hard. But if there were even the slightest chance of meeting someone so wonderful… Please give a realistic answer to this small-town girl who can’t help dreaming.
Sorry for the long post.
I’m Nana Ayase☆
Why are you putting yourself down so much?
It’s only been another week or two, right?
Are you the type who needs to know right away whether it’s a yes or a no?
You really shouldn’t put yourself down so much. Men may think there’s something emotionally wrong and become even less likely to make you an offer.
You registered with the club because you have at least a little confidence in yourself, right?
Taking selfies can be awkward, but the lights and Christmas trees are sparkling beautifully this time of year, so why not try taking some photos around there? You just need to capture your everyday self.
Only tap “Looks great” for someone you genuinely like.
Also, please be careful—some people only want one meeting without protection.
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I’m Maezawa from the CEO’s office, and I’ll answer this as well.
> When I tried contacting them, they had a lot of personal requests about photographing women—or rather…
Oh, now that you mention it…
On message boards where people post that kind of thing, requests like “I want to photograph someone in a swimsuit” or “I want to do a nude shoot” are often the norm.
And on cosplay boards, the model may be expected to wear cosplay.
So I suppose you could say the requests are fairly demanding. Sorry for oversimplifying things.
I’d like to see what the photos taken by the staff actually look like, so could you contact Maezawa through the “Contact Us” form at the bottom of the question box?
https://universe-club.jp/help/contact/
If the photos aren’t up to standard, I’ll ask whether they can be retaken.
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As I mentioned the other day, I take the time to look for people who seem to share my interests and send them a thoughtful “That’s wonderful!” But apparently, because some people are just liking everyone indiscriminately, the men who receive those likes don’t think anything of them.
That’s unfortunate.
Marika
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I’m Dai, a male member.
If it’s only been a week since you signed up, that doesn’t mean you won’t receive any offers going forward.
I don’t think Christmas has much to do with men, haha.
I get the impression that “You’re lovely” is something they send to everyone. However, I once met a woman who had sent it to me, and I liked her because it seemed she had sent it after reacting to my interests.
I wouldn’t assume that sending it will necessarily lead to an offer, but it might serve as one way to start a conversation.
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I’m Rin, a female member of SALON.
If you can make a reverse offer, I think you should go ahead and do it without worrying too much! I hope there’s someone willing to accept it.
From the way you wrote your question, I get the feeling that you’re probably a very kind person. I hope you meet someone wonderful☆
P.S. I’m not very familiar with Universe Club… So “reverse offer” and “Suteki Desu Ne!” are different things? Sorry about that!
If there’s a feature like that, I think you should give it a try!!
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I’m a male member who’s never had much luck.
You sound like an incredibly kind person.
I’d love to learn from you.
Even if you don’t find a wonderful match, I’d say you’ve already succeeded in life. I specialize in Type A arrangements, and I always hope to meet women like you.
Wishing you the best of luck.
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I’m Date◎Yume, a male member.
I’ve had my own circumstances, so this is only visible to women I’ve made an offer to.
Getting offers can be pretty difficult, can’t it? I think quite a few men, myself included, don’t make new offers while they’re already seeing someone, so getting an offer right after registering probably involves some luck too.
I think saying “You seem wonderful” also signals that you’d like to receive an offer, so you should go ahead and send lots of them（笑）
That said, be a little selective about which men you actually meet（笑）
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I’m Kazu, a male member.
I’m not interested in approaches from women who aren’t my type, so I only make my profile visible to women I’ve made an offer to.
Men who keep their profiles public probably have a different mindset from mine and are looking to receive approaches from a wider range of women. So rather than overthinking it, I think you should simply tap “You seem wonderful.”
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