After reading the previous question, I strongly relate to how difficult sex with a papa who takes a long time to finish can be.
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Is there really nothing that can be done about taking so long to climax?
It’s quite a concern for me.
And with men like that, just when they seem close to finishing, they sometimes ask you to stop, don’t they?
Also, perhaps because they don’t know how to climax, men who take a long time to finish tend to be less skilled at moving and playing. Does anyone else feel this way?
That’s why, even when I’m wet, the way they make contact can hurt and doesn’t feel good, so I have trouble getting aroused, which makes it hurt even more.
I’m sorry to say this, but for me, a papa who takes a long time to finish is an undesirable papa. The problem is that you can’t tell until you get into bed, so couldn’t something be noted in the profile comments, staff comments, or somewhere else—such as “takes a long time to finish” or “has difficulty climaxing”?
I’m Shingo Lee, a columnist.
I’ll answer while suggesting that you may be better off ending things with this person and looking for someone else.
I’m lucky that all the women I see prefer things to last a long time, because I suffer from severe delayed ejaculation.
People with delayed ejaculation often have difficulty reaching climax in the first place, and once they manage to hold back for a moment, they can usually keep holding back for even longer. If I hold back for 10 seconds, I can often last another five minutes or so.
Even I sometimes climax after about five minutes when the “mood” is right. It’s not easy, but I do think it’s important to create an erotic atmosphere that makes you want to climax. Physiologically, your brain needs to be in an aroused state to reach the finish, so increasing your level of excitement is one important factor.
Also, if you think you can gain the upper hand, after the other person pretends to hold back, you could force the issue with oral sex and make them climax that way.
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I don’t think there’s much you can do about it.
Consider it bad luck, part ways, and wait for the next offer.
You can’t know whether a woman is:
- completely passive
- slow to get aroused
without trying an adult relationship with her—but would you really put that on her profile? lol
Neither of you can force it, right?
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That would be impossible.
Both men and women can reach the peak in as little as three minutes, after all.
So if the excitement peaks that quickly, women may have a hard time keeping up or reaching their own peak.
That said, it varies from woman to woman.
—Paper Airplane
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I’m Dai, a male member.
You seem awfully sure that men with delayed ejaculation simply don’t know how to climax—even though you’re not a man yourself.
I tend to take a while to finish, but no one has ever told me that I’m bad in bed.
It’s not like I’m going to date you anyway, so feel free to say whatever you want.
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I’m Kazu, a male member.
I don’t think there’s any way around it.
Sorry, but women with an unpleasant odor down there or who are bad at oral sex are a miss for me as a PJ. The problem is that you can’t tell until you’re in bed with them. So, whether in their profile comments or the staff’s comments—or anywhere else—could you please note things like “has an odor down there,” “loose,” or “bad at oral”?
If you switched the genders around, you’d realize what an outrageous request that is（笑).
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