I apologize for posting under a username, as this is an anonymous message board viewed by many people.
I also apologize for suddenly posting so late at night, and would be grateful for your understanding.
I am seriously considering registering with Universe Club.
I am a 38-year-old man (39 by the traditional Japanese count) who works night shifts as a temporary employee. To my great embarrassment, I have never had any experience with women and have never been in a relationship.
I was confessed to once when I was in first grade, but that is another story (笑).
I first learned about Universe Club about two years ago, and I am now considering joining because I would like the opportunity to date a woman. (When I say I am still considering it, I have actually already made up my mind about 93.5% of the way to joining through the Shibuya branch.)
There is one thing that has been bothering me about the remaining 5.5%, so I would like to ask a question.
(Those of you who are good at math noticed, right? 93.5% + 5.5% = 99%. The remaining 1% is the final decision my heart has to make.)
Are the women who are considering dating through Universe Club genuinely serious?
By “serious,” I mean: will they actually meet with me as arranged?
Since I will be paying a substantial membership fee (and of course, it is money I earned myself), I feel a little uneasy.
I would be very grateful for any advice you can offer.
It has been getting colder, so I hope the staff at the Shibuya branch will take good care of themselves.
I also wish Universe Club continued success and growth.
T. Iwasaki
I’m late to the discussion, but since there haven’t been any answers from women, I’ll respond.
First of all, joining a dating club with the goal of gaining experience with women when you have none is a mistake. A dating club isn’t an adult entertainment service.
If your main goal is simply to be with a woman because you haven’t been able to get a girlfriend naturally, you should go to an adult entertainment establishment instead.
If what you’re looking for is a genuine emotional connection, then a dating club isn’t really the right place for that either. Such relationships do happen, and there are certainly women who want them, but an allowance is still understood to be part of the arrangement.
In most cases, women will shy away from being treated like a genuine girlfriend. If you’re looking for a girlfriend or marriage partner, you should use an appropriate dating app or marriage agency.
What women in dating clubs are looking for is a polished escort and a sufficient allowance.
It may sound as though the women are being demanding, but this is what makes things work properly. If you can avoid developing what’s often called a serious romantic attachment, treat your partner smoothly, and provide a sufficient allowance, then I think joining a dating club is fine.
Otherwise, you’ll either be completely ignored or simply handled for someone else’s convenience while you lose your money.
I recommend thinking it through carefully before joining.
Marika
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I’m Osaka, a male member.
If you simply want to spend money to meet women or date them, I’d probably recommend going to a brothel. But if you genuinely want to change yourself and learn through dating women, I’ve started to think joining could be worth considering.
That said, you’ll probably be able to achieve what you’re concerned about—“being able to meet someone”—but 99% of relationships that move beyond that may end in disappointment. I came up with that harsh figure based on what you wrote, but I also think repeatedly matching with people to improve that 1% means putting yourself in a place where you’ll face the harsh realities of life.
Either way, you’ll need money. More than you probably expect, lol. If that’s what concerns you, I won’t sugarcoat it: you should probably go to a brothel after all.
Still, I want to support people who keep moving forward!
Good luck!
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I’m Dai, a male member.
I’m not sure what you mean by 93.5% or 5.5%—those figures seem oddly specific—but I think the important thing is how much disposable income you have.
If you tell the staff that you work night shifts through a temp agency, they may wonder whether you’re financially comfortable.
Of course, it would be a different story if you had substantial assets or were making decent money through investments, but I do wonder whether someone in that position would be working night shifts through a temp agency.
Also, naturally, the women are looking for relationships motivated by money.
Since you’ve never had any experience with women, I’m concerned that you might develop serious feelings and end up acting like a stalker.
For these reasons, I’m afraid I have to conclude that you may not be suited to a dating club.
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I’m in Seattle.
There are no fake profiles here. You can meet someone 90% of the time.
Be honest and state that you’re a virgin. If you can’t handle things smoothly, women are more likely to be understanding.
Please have at least ¥100,000 ready—you should be able to meet once. Since you may be nervous and have some mishaps the first time, if you can’t spend several hundred thousand yen, I recommend trying the adult entertainment industry instead.
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This is Chikuwa, one of the male members.
Men have to pass an application screening too, so shouldn’t you first consider whether they’d even let you join? If I were staff, I’d definitely reject you—no question.
Why not spend some time going to soaplands or hostess clubs first and gain at least a little life experience before coming here?
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Why again, and why now?
If you were fine without it all this time, wouldn’t you be fine without it from here on out too?
You might end up suffering because you found out about it—and experienced it.
This is bait, right…?
Paper Airplane
Um, wouldn’t you get rejected during the membership screening?
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I’m Taro, a male member.
If a woman has only recently joined, or has just completed her six-month renewal check, you’ll almost certainly be able to meet her. With other women, there have been times when I couldn’t arrange a meeting. Still, overall, it’s less than 10%.
This may be presumptuous, but judging from your situation, even if you do meet someone, there’s a good chance you won’t be able to take things any further at first. It might be a good idea to get some experience with women separately at a soapland, make offers to D-type women or relatively more experienced C-type women, and avoid negotiating down or skimping on the allowance. Experience points matter, just like in a game. “Doing it well” comes after that.
It costs money, but you can have experiences you won’t find elsewhere. There are plenty of small details, of course, but it’s best to approach it with a long-term perspective and the mindset of making an investment. I imagine you’ll be making the decision to get past the “last 1%” you’re struggling with now many more times in the future. Welcome to the slippery slope. Good luck with your adult mud play♪
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I’m Kazu, a male member.
I’m available to meet. I’ve made offers to dozens of women, and I’ve never failed to meet someone after making plans. In that sense, you can count on me to show up.
That said, after we meet and have a meal, what happens next is up to the woman and the person asking the question.
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