Since joining the club, I’ve been able to meet many women. But lately, I sometimes suddenly feel empty.
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By paying money, I can have a relationship with a young, beautiful woman without any effort. It feels unbearably hollow.
That said, I don’t have the courage—or the intention—to quit. To all the male members, have you ever felt the same way?
I’m columnist Saito♪.
People naturally get bored with things over time, so I don’t think you need to worry about it.
The important thing is that it’s you she’s getting bored with—not her job.
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Maezawa from the President’s Office here.
I think it may have turned out that way because your sole purpose was to get paid.
There are all kinds of people in the world, with all kinds of experiences and all kinds of perspectives.
If you start meeting and talking with a variety of people—and of course, H is fine too—and make a point of seeing the many different sides of people as human beings, I don’t think you’ll feel so empty.
To begin with, aren’t you someone who finds the world as a whole empty?
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I’m Nana Ayase☆
You feel empty because your relationship at the club is purely physical. It’s basically become the same as sex work.
If you can form a genuine emotional connection, your world may open up too.
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Isn’t there more to the connection than just the physical side?
For example, enjoying each other’s company, having fun talking, sharing the same tastes in food, or having common hobbies.
Without those things, it might feel empty—like you’re simply buying someone’s company with money.
I suppose it depends on how you choose to spend time with women, though…
Marika
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I’m Aya, a female member.
I get the impression that perhaps the questioner is only engaging with women’s bodies through papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan).
My papa (a male supporter) spends one-on-one time with a young woman in a genuinely open and honest relationship, building something like a romantic relationship and best friendship. He says things like, “It’s been so long since I’ve felt this way,” and “It’s going to be hard to say goodbye.”
If you can build that kind of relationship, I think the sense of emptiness would be almost nonexistent. What do you think? If that’s not what you’re looking for, you might as well visit an adult-entertainment establishment.
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I’m Fuu, a columnist.
I don’t feel empty, no.
As I wrote in my column, there was a period when I got a little bored, but I’m having a lot of fun now.
I think having some kind of goal or something to work toward makes it more enjoyable.
For me, that means:
- Finding monthly partners who satisfy me
- Helping my monthly partners climax during intimacy
I now have a stable rotation, and the sense of fulfillment is incredible.
I’m truly grateful to my monthly partners.
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>“Without having to put in any effort”
Yeah, that does feel empty.
Lately, I’ve been getting into meeting people outside the club—hairstylists, estheticians, and the like.
Why not try enjoying things outside the club for a change? It feels incredibly fresh, you notice the differences, and you also gain a renewed appreciation for what’s good about the club. I think it’ll be fulfilling.
If you “don’t have the courage or intention to quit,” then I think you can erase that emptiness by filling it with the girls you meet through the club.
Paper Airplane
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I’m Flag Maker, a column writer.
3D adult games have come a long way—you can create a girl exactly to your liking. I still get completely absorbed in them from time to time.
I play adult games, watch erotic anime, and of course watch porn. I’m even into prostate play. I also venture into unpredictable battles, and I’ll make a move at work whenever an opportunity presents itself. There are ups and downs with each one, and I have both successes and failures, but since I diversify my desires, I don’t take a major loss overall.
Diversify your desires, too. Don’t put all your desires in one basket.
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