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Dec 3, 2021 18:09
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あかり
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Other
You might be the one getting carried away.
Akari
🏅 パパ活歴8年目突入
彼氏/既婚/他パパ/セフレOK/全力応援
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Fuu, your column writer.
If I don’t make an effort with my monthly arrangement partners, they’ll drop me, so I’ve never once thought of myself as popular.
Apparently, I wasn’t among the questioner’s 40 people.
What a relief.
🏅 手コキ評論家
入会して8年。いまだ彷徨中です
Age: 60s
👨 Male
Universe member
It’s Joe.
I only studied seriously through elementary school, then not only blew through those savings during my six years of middle and high school, but also ended up buried in debt. On top of that, after spending six years at an all-boys school, I’d barely spoken to a girl until I got a girlfriend in my senior year of high school.
Things have been more or less the same ever since.
So I believe I’ve taken your point to heart. But let me ask you this in return: if you arranged 40 dates and every single man turned out to be an unsophisticated old guy like Joe, wouldn’t it drive you insane? Joe isn’t a doctor or anything, but the fact that you can ask questions like this so matter-of-factly may mean your brain is already leaking out. Surely you haven’t opened your legs even once, have you?
I don’t mean to meddle, but I recommend getting a brain checkup. Mac-san modestly calls it a “stupid brain,” but you may not have a brain at all.
🏅 倶楽部女性のご主人様に潤いを!
Mパパ、永遠の交際継続中!
B1タイプ〜A寄りパパです!
会う度大人は嫌と感じる方………ご相談ください。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I hope someday you meet someone you can really speak your mind to.
Finding someone you feel comfortable and at ease with—that’s what papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) is really about.
You just haven’t met that person yet.
Even at a dating club, it probably isn’t much fun unless both people are popular and in demand.
—Kamihikōki
A~Dまで一通りオファーの経験あり、多くても月1程度でLINEはスケジュール調整のみ、スマートに無理なく長期交際するスタイルです。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Dai, a male member.
So what?
I know what I look like, so I’ve never expected anyone to compliment me.
You must be a very popular woman if you’ve met 40 men, but this is exactly why I don’t want to meet women who receive a lot of offers.
綾瀬なな
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Other
I’m Nana Ayase ☆
Praise him to the skies and make him feel like he’s on top of the world.
His allowance might change.
フラグメーカー
Male
Column
🏅 40歳でリアル異世界転生したオッサン l 元金融マン → 現AI界隈
出張ホストの実技試験合格してるので、対女性への無難な前戯とかマナーに一定の知見あり。
Age: 40s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m a column writer and a flag-maker.
Well, yes—but so what? lol
There’s nothing wrong with it. That’s just how this world works, so let’s move money around according to its rules. What’s wrong with that?
あや
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Other
I’m Aya, a female member.
Are there really that many men who brag about how popular they are? I haven’t met one yet. Maybe you’re just really good at complimenting people.
My papa is a charming, flirtatious older guy who’s been popular with women both when he was younger and even now. But he says, “Anyone can be popular when they’re young. Bragging about that old history now is just pathetic.”