Tips Dec 3, 2021 18:09

Do men on these dating clubs really believe that young women meet them because they genuinely like them...? I can understand having that kind of confidence if they’ve been popular since they were young and are exceptionally attractive and tall, but most men on these clubs seem to be men who spent their youth studying or who weren’t particularly good-looking, so they never had much success with women, right? I’ve met around 40 men through arrangements made here, and 100% of them were like that. From my perspective, money is their only redeeming quality, yet if I compliment them even a little, they immediately get carried away and start saying things like, “I get told that a lot ^^,” which makes me cringe every time. But I guess since there are so many women like me who compliment them for the money, does that make the men mistakenly believe they’re actually popular?

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あかり
あかり ?
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You might be the one getting carried away. Akari
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Fuu
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Age: 50s 👨 Male Universe member
I’m Fuu, your column writer. If I don’t make an effort with my monthly arrangement partners, they’ll drop me, so I’ve never once thought of myself as popular. Apparently, I wasn’t among the questioner’s 40 people. What a relief.
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ジョー・ルビコン
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入会して8年。いまだ彷徨中です
Age: 60s 👨 Male Universe member
It’s Joe. I only studied seriously through elementary school, then not only blew through those savings during my six years of middle and high school, but also ended up buried in debt. On top of that, after spending six years at an all-boys school, I’d barely spoken to a girl until I got a girlfriend in my senior year of high school. Things have been more or less the same ever since. So I believe I’ve taken your point to heart. But let me ask you this in return: if you arranged 40 dates and every single man turned out to be an unsophisticated old guy like Joe, wouldn’t it drive you insane? Joe isn’t a doctor or anything, but the fact that you can ask questions like this so matter-of-factly may mean your brain is already leaking out. Surely you haven’t opened your legs even once, have you? I don’t mean to meddle, but I recommend getting a brain checkup. Mac-san modestly calls it a “stupid brain,” but you may not have a brain at all.
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紙ひこうき
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Mパパ、永遠の交際継続中! B1タイプ〜A寄りパパです! 会う度大人は嫌と感じる方………ご相談ください。
Age: Private 👨 Male Universe member
I hope someday you meet someone you can really speak your mind to. Finding someone you feel comfortable and at ease with—that’s what papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) is really about. You just haven’t met that person yet. Even at a dating club, it probably isn’t much fun unless both people are popular and in demand. —Kamihikōki
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ダイ
A~Dまで一通りオファーの経験あり、多くても月1程度でLINEはスケジュール調整のみ、スマートに無理なく長期交際するスタイルです。
Age: 50s 👨 Male Universe member
I’m Dai, a male member. So what? I know what I look like, so I’ve never expected anyone to compliment me. You must be a very popular woman if you’ve met 40 men, but this is exactly why I don’t want to meet women who receive a lot of offers.
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綾瀬なな
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I’m Nana Ayase ☆ Praise him to the skies and make him feel like he’s on top of the world. His allowance might change.
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フラグメーカー
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🏅 40歳でリアル異世界転生したオッサン l 元金融マン → 現AI界隈
出張ホストの実技試験合格してるので、対女性への無難な前戯とかマナーに一定の知見あり。
Age: 40s 👨 Male Universe member
I’m a column writer and a flag-maker. Well, yes—but so what? lol There’s nothing wrong with it. That’s just how this world works, so let’s move money around according to its rules. What’s wrong with that?
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あや
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I’m Aya, a female member. Are there really that many men who brag about how popular they are? I haven’t met one yet. Maybe you’re just really good at complimenting people. My papa is a charming, flirtatious older guy who’s been popular with women both when he was younger and even now. But he says, “Anyone can be popular when they’re young. Bragging about that old history now is just pathetic.”
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