Have any of you ever been asked questions like, “When was the last time you had sex?” or “How long has it been since you had sex?”
What do you think they mean by asking that?
Do they genuinely want to know the truth, or are they trying to check whether I have a boyfriend or any other papas?
I’m Dai, a male member.
It’s just a conversation starter.
If you don’t want to be asked questions like that, try bringing up some interesting topics yourself.
They’re probably making an effort to keep the conversation flowing too!
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I’m in Seattle.
A lot of women who haven’t been intimate for several months experience some pain.
Thorough preparation and sometimes lubricant are necessary.
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I’m Fuu, a column writer.
I wouldn’t ask, but if I had to guess, it’s probably because:
- Hearing “It’s been a while” turns him on
- He wants to find out whether you have other papas or a boyfriend
- He’s trying to gauge how much you enjoy H
- He wants to have some sexy talk with you
If your papa knows you’re seeing multiple people, I think it’s fine to be honest.
If you want to turn him on, you could just say you don’t remember or that it’s been a while.
“Since it’s been so long, it feels sooo good~”
Something like that, haha.
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I’m Nana Ayase ♡
Maybe he was checking whether you’re seeing other men too.
He might have been asking, “Have you been with anyone else without a condom, and do you have any infections?”
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I’m Shingo Lee (Shingori), a columnist.
Isn’t it just an assumption that sex after a long dry spell is more passionate?
After all, sex is fundamentally about having children, so perhaps men are wired to find sex with women who have sex less often more exciting. I think the slight sense of regret a man may feel after sleeping with a sex worker is the opposite phenomenon.
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