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Dec 2, 2021 16:18
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A～Dまで一通りオファーの経験あり、多くても月１程度でLINEはスケジュール調整のみ、スマートに無理なく長期交際するスタイルです。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Dai, a male member.
Are you telling the men that directly?
If you’re only thinking it, they won’t know, so you’re fine.
For example, if you turn your face away when he tries to kiss you, it probably won’t lead to a second meeting, though…
Other
I’m BB7.
Can’t you?
I don’t know whether you’re a man or a woman, but regardless of whether I can or not, I wouldn’t get intimate with a woman who found me creepy.
Women shouldn’t get intimate with men they find creepy either.
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Date ◎ Yume, a male member.
Haha（笑）
That’s a good question（笑）
> Even if a girl thinks, “This old man (or grandpa) is so creepy-looking,” can I still have sex with her?
First of all, if that’s what she thinks, wouldn’t she be the one to turn him down?
You shouldn’t force yourself too much. I believe a relationship should be enjoyable and mutually beneficial for both people...
Also, I once asked a woman I was seeing, “I’m an old man—is that okay?”
She said, “It’s fine.”（笑）
Questions like this remind me of when I first started dating and make me feel nostalgic...
🏅 パパ活歴7年目突入
彼氏/既婚/他パパ/セフレOK/全力応援
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Fuu, a columnist.
If she’s making an effort—even pretending to enjoy it—I can go through with it, despite feeling that way.
But if she clearly rushes through it because she’s grossed out, or just lies there unresponsive, I’ll do what needs to be done, but there won’t be a next time.
papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) isn’t something you should force yourself to do. If the allowance isn’t enough to make it bearable, quitting would be better for you.
I hope you find another job and work hard to earn money. I’m rooting for you.
Other
This is Nana Ayase☆
You’re still in middle school, aren’t you?
When it comes to men, it’s not about looks—it’s about how generous they are. I don’t think you need an allowance.