We’re supposed to have a sleepover in three days, but my period may start around then. (We stayed over last week too, and we do it every time we meet.) What would be the smoothest way to tell my boyfriend? If he were my papa (a male supporter), I’d ask, “Our overnight stay is in three days, but it looks like it may overlap with my period. Would that be okay?” But I’m wondering if it would be strange to say it that way to my boyfriend, so I’d appreciate everyone’s opinions.
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Also, is it normal for someone to ask you to use your mouth during an overnight stay while you’re on your period? Personally, it makes me feel really sad…
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If your period comes regularly, you should be able to tell when the next one will be. It’s just like work—you should let them know as early as possible.
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If you’re close, I think it’s fine to tell him when you’re on your period. He might be your boyfriend—or he might just be really eager, haha.
If you stay over every week and are intimate, why not tell him your cycle? He may take it into account and adjust your future date nights accordingly.
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With a boyfriend, things may progress step by step: kissing at first, then B, then using your mouth, and eventually becoming an adult relationship (intimate).
I think using your mouth is pretty normal.
Also, if he’s your boyfriend, you should be able to talk about anything, and I think it’s fine to bring it up anytime—even on the day of.
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If he’s your boyfriend, I don’t think you necessarily need to bring it up, and you should be able to enjoy yourselves without doing it every time, right? That’s not the only reason you’re together, after all.
If it would make you sad to be asked to do it orally, I think you should tell him so. If he still asks, then if you feel like trying your best for your boyfriend, I think you should give it a try.
Personally, I’d want to make my partner happy, so I’d do my very best! I hope you have a wonderful overnight date!
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