Do you think relationship psychology can be useful in papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan)? Do any of you actually use it?
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Since so many people here seem to be carrying emotional baggage, I’m starting to feel that learning counseling techniques might help me build closer relationships than studying relationship psychology.
I’m BB7.
Simply listening to her seriously is enough.
You probably don’t know how difficult it can be for women carrying deep emotional wounds, so be careful not to pry too deeply into their inner lives and end up getting hurt by someone carrying real darkness.
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I’m Aya, a female member.
Think about it. If you received professional, genuinely helpful counseling from a handsome psychiatrist, you might develop transference and fall for him. But if some older guy with neither cleanliness nor substance, trying to rely on cheap tricks, says, “I’ll listen if you want,” the result is obvious—zero multiplied by anything is still zero, right…??
At any rate, shouldn’t you focus on being well-groomed, learning basic communication skills, and, above all, developing a genuine listening attitude instead of relying on superficial psychological tricks? That would make someone much more likable.
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I’m Fuu, a column writer.
When I read books on the psychology of love—or psychology in general—I have those “Wow, I see” moments, but putting it into practice is difficult, so it hasn’t been much use to me.
How did I make it practical? I watched lots of YouTube videos, made my own notes, reviewed them before intimacy, and put them into practice. Eventually, I was able to help my partners climax during intimacy.
Neither I nor my regular partners are emotionally distressed at all, so there’s no need for counseling.
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I’m Nana Ayase☆
☆Osaka, you said it straight (▭-▭)✧ And I think you’re absolutely right.
Everyone has their own preferences, so I don’t think things like counseling are really helpful.
I’m not saying that’s true 100% of the time, but we all grew up in different circumstances, and our personalities vary so much.
Instead of fixating on things like that, why not just enjoy a variety of experiences?
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I’m Osaka, a male member.
Taking advantage of someone’s emotional darkness during counseling is pretty sleazy.
But isn’t the questioner’s mindset the truly dark part? lol
Aren’t they the one who needs counseling the most?
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I’m Kazu, a male member.
I read books like that for fun when I was younger, but I don’t think they’re useful. Dabbling in psychology may make you feel clever, but that’s about all it amounts to.
You don’t need to offer counseling. If you’re a decent, dependable person, women will open up to you and grow close to you naturally.
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