When I see an overweight or unattractive woman—or an overweight, unattractive mother who has both traits—walking around town, I find myself wondering what kind of mindset a man must have to be intimate with someone like that.
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There are plenty of women at Universe who are far more beautiful, yet for some reason, I’ve met many women there who seem troubled because they can’t get married.
They’re all women, so what accounts for this difference?
I’m Joe.
Joe’s wife might be the kind of woman you used as an example. I’m not sure whether that makes us an exception or whether Joe simply has questionable taste, but I still maintain an intimate relationship with my wife regularly.
We were intimate just the day before yesterday, and yet I’m off to Edo with Shi-chan tomorrow. I’m sorry.
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I’m Nana Ayase☆
If you want children who are attractive and well-proportioned, I think you should marry a beautiful woman with a good figure.
But when you come home from work and dinner is ready—and delicious—don’t you start thinking, “I’ll come straight home instead of cheating♡”?
Also, I think a woman who isn’t a hassle makes a good marriage partner.
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Fat, ugly, or fat and ugly—both.
I can’t believe you’d write something like that.
You must not have anyone who cherishes you more than anyone else.
How pitiful.
Akari
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I’m Rin, a female SALON member.
Maybe it’s because he isn’t deciding whether to marry someone based on her looks alone. I think she must have other qualities that he finds attractive.
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I’m Shingo Lee (Shingori), a columnist.
Believing that “being with someone good-looking is what makes you happy” is a value shaped by other people—not one that truly leads to happiness.
Even if you marry a beautiful woman, there’s no point if she’s short-tempered, stingy, constantly complains, always compares herself to others, and is just plain difficult to be around.
I used to want to marry someone who was reasonably beautiful, and I ended up dating former idols and former beauty pageant winners. But these days, I’ve come to the conclusion that the first thing you should compromise on when choosing a spouse is appearance. I think most men eventually realize that, sooner or later.
So when someone beautiful wants to get married but can’t, I can’t help thinking she may have some major issues aside from her appearance.
Various studies have also found that men are less likely than women to prioritize looks in a long-term partner. Women actually care about their partner’s appearance more than you might expect—relatively speaking, compared with men.
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Seattle.
When you’re too busy with raising kids, work, or entrance exams, there may be people who simply can’t afford to worry about their looks. If none of those apply, though, it’s their own fault.
Men are like stud horses—they can manage just about anything once.
Hopefully Contrail can become an even better successor to Deep Impact than Kizuna.
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I’m Kazu, a male member.
There are probably men who make an offer simply because a woman is beautiful, but hardly any man would marry someone just because she’s beautiful. When choosing a marriage partner, factors other than appearance are generally what determine the decision.
Women might make a handsome man a casual partner because he’s good-looking, but they wouldn’t marry him just because he’s handsome, right?
To the person asking this question—have you really not thought this through?
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