Will I ever meet a woman who makes me think, “With her, I can perform without medication and enjoy it every day”? Is that an unrealistic hope? Have any of you met someone like that?
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I know I also need to accept my age, but I still sometimes wonder if I might meet someone who’s my type and with whom I can manage without medication.
It’s good for the heart, too…
I’m Shingo Lee, a columnist.
Back then, I could get it up without medication for the girl I loved most…
I guess the power of love is incredible—or maybe the effects of hormones are just mysterious.
I’m not even 40 yet, but I’ve worn myself out from overuse. Going without medication is pretty tough now. These days, no matter how much I like someone, I rely on the power of the pills, and doing it every day is exhausting. I need to mix in someone else now and then… Even once a week might get a little repetitive.
It’s true that erectile medication puts a strain on the heart, but I seem to remember that once you’ve taken it even once, the risk is more or less the same. If you haven’t started taking it yet, that’s one thing, but if you’ve already taken it, why not keep going? (This is just my personal opinion. For accurate information, please ask a doctor.)
I feel like my sex drive is going to evaporate before I turn 50, so I’m enjoying what little I have left, even if it means shortening my life. (I envy those of you who are still going strong…)
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I’m in Seattle.
When the feelings are mutual, things work well physically too, right?
If it’s every day, though… you’d probably have to focus on one person, and it would become almost like living together. Even when she came over to stay, every other day was about the most I could manage when I was close to 40.
Naturally, the allowance would have to be enough to make it exclusive—and you’d probably become close enough to consider getting married.
Let’s both do our best.
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I’m Fuu, a column writer.
I believe it’s basic manners to be able to get it up without relying on the woman.
If I can’t, things get awkward, and I feel bad for her. It would also be sad to make her wonder, “Is it because of me that he can’t get it up?”
I always use medication—my meds are permanently stationed（笑), Demon Slayer style.
I’ll be writing a column about it soon, but even unpopular-with-women Fuu finally managed to have an internal orgasm.
It’s been about a year since my column about finally having an external orgasm. Last month and this month, two women helped me reach an internal orgasm around the same time.
The sense of security that comes from dating for over a year, along with a lot of trial and error, finally paid off. Wow—the involuntary twitching during an internal orgasm and the thrusting feel incredibly good!
It can make you feel happy too.
How about enjoying papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) by keeping your medication on hand, staying fully ready, and aiming to master the papa-katsu life and achieve an internal orgasm?
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Even men in their early 70s can manage without medication. Though doing it every day would probably be too much.
As far as I know, only one of the men I’ve met takes medication. He always goes twice, but says he could manage once without it.
Marika
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I’m Kazu, a male member.
It probably depends on how serious the questioner’s issues are and on their preferences, but I’ve continued seeing women who bring out the best in me.
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I’m Maezawa from the President’s Office, and I’ll answer this as well.
Hmm…
Normally, shouldn’t you be fine without medication?
If you need medication, I don’t think it’s something that varies depending on the woman. So there’s probably no need to worry about whether you can manage without it.
People naturally decline as they age. You might be able to manage without medication if you start exercising, but if you currently need it, I think that’s probably the result of not exercising, among other things.
I think it would be best to accept the fact that you need medication.
If you half-heartedly think, “Maybe I can manage without it,”
I feel that means you aren’t seeing the woman as a person.
You should try to think more about how the other person feels.
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