Tips Nov 30, 2021 18:17

When I break up with men from the club, I’m usually at the end of my patience, so I write out everything I dislike about them in a several-thousand-word message and send it on LINE. At the end, I add:

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“Do you think I’m seeing men from the club because I like club men? I don’t care about cooking, sex, or conversation as long as it’s reflected in the allowance. A man who can’t pay has no value whatsoever.” The men I send these long complaint messages to are people who are beyond unacceptable as human beings—they’ve tried to rape me, attempted to kill me during an SM encounter without my consent, sexually harassed me in public, or made insulting remarks. If we simply aren’t compatible, I end things normally and amicably. Men who do things like that generally mistakenly believe they’re popular, so I send them a reality check: “Don’t get carried away. Every girl around you is only looking at your money. For starters, do you really think a beautiful woman like that would be interested in an unattractive, short man like you?” Most of the time, they don’t reply and just block me. Since I describe everything in detail, if anything were untrue, they should argue back—if someone accused you of rape or attempted murder, you’d normally deny it if it were a mistake. But they never do, so I think they’re aware of what they did. Why do they block me without replying? I still have the phone number they gave me when we first met through the club, so I’m considering calling and saying, “Why are you ignoring me?”
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Maezawa from the CEO’s office here. > “If there were any inaccuracies, he should have argued back.” I don’t think there would be any point in arguing with someone who sends a long message like that. Besides, if it was so far removed from reality, I doubt he would even feel inclined to respond. > “Why block me without even replying?” Probably because there’s no point in responding to something so emotional. For that matter, what was the long message even sent for? If you want a reply, you should write it in a way that makes a reply more likely. The story was so absurd that I think blocking was the only option left. If you want a response, don’t attack the other person. You need to create a basis for having a proper conversation. Though, honestly, I don’t really understand why you wanted a reply in the first place when you were breaking up.
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I’m Ayase Nana☆ If you’re going to try something weird halfway through, don’t make an offer in the first place. You’re a nuisance, you ugly creep. (angry) If you hear back from him, please tell him that. I could never bring myself to say something like that. He may have already been reported to the staff.
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Perhaps you thought you didn’t want to get involved with a strange woman. Marika I accidentally deleted it. It wasn’t really worth reposting, but there was an update. They probably only read the first few lines of that LINE message.
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カズ
Age: Private 👨 Male Universe member
I’m Kazu, a male member. I think it’s because some creepy weirdo started bothering her.
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ダイ
A~Dまで一通りオファーの経験あり、多くても月1程度でLINEはスケジュール調整のみ、スマートに無理なく長期交際するスタイルです。
Age: 50s 👨 Male Universe member
I’m Dai, a male member. What are you hoping to get from the man you’re thinking of breaking up with? To be honest, you’re both as bad as each other.
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I’m BB7. Whether you’re right or wrong, and whether you realize it or not, I can’t imagine anyone replying to a LINE message this long. More importantly, I think you should recognize how dangerous you’re being.
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スペ90以下のひとを厚く囲い込み、一生面倒見て実質一夫多妻で大切にしたい独身です。
Age: 50s 👨 Male Universe member
I’m in Seattle. Let’s keep sending them anyway, if only to make him reflect on what he’s done. Well, I guess I shouldn’t expect a reply.
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I’m Aya, a female member. Simply because it felt scary, perhaps.
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