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Nov 29, 2021 13:57
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A～Dまで一通りオファーの経験あり、多くても月１程度でLINEはスケジュール調整のみ、スマートに無理なく長期交際するスタイルです。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Dai, a male member.
I don’t think it’s unusual, but in reality, it seems like the cost gradually keeps going up.
Lately, if all I want is sex with a woman around 20, I’ve started feeling like a hostess club is enough.
I haven’t used those services since I started with the dating club, though…
Other
I’m Ayase Nana ☆
Aren’t you the only one assuming that young women will accept anything?
Quite a few men offer to meet women in an age range they wouldn’t be embarrassed to be seen with.
I think the best choice is someone who can have an enjoyable conversation suited to the man’s age. Otherwise, it just becomes about the physical side.
🏅 パパ活歴7年目突入
彼氏/既婚/他パパ/セフレOK/全力応援
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
This is Fuu, the column writer.
There are probably papas like that.
And there are probably women who receive generous allowances because of it.
I think women who can’t put up with that eventually fade out of papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan).
Personally, when I first joined, Fuu used to make offers to women in their teens. I was drawn to their youth.
There were hardly any teenage girls who satisfied Fuu.
Now, I tend to make offers to women aged 23 and over.
🏅 あなたの味方
お役に立てれば幸いです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe staff
Maezawa from the President’s Office here with an answer as well.
I haven’t really come across many men like that. I don’t get the impression that many people start making offers to increasingly younger women after joining.
Most men seem to have a preferred age range and tend to make offers to women around that age.
If anything, they may eventually start making offers to older women as well.
Rather than gradually shifting younger, it seems more like their range broadens. At first, they may be focused on a specific age range, but if they meet a woman they like, they’ll try making an offer even if she’s somewhat older.
Their main preferred age range doesn’t change, but their acceptable range seems to expand, so to speak.
Other
I’m BB7.
Sure, I think that’s possible through an agency as well, but the older I get, the less I find myself wanting to be with younger women...
I think it really depends on the person.
Other
I’m Aya, a female member.
My papa isn’t like that at all… Though I can’t really say, since he isn’t old enough to be considered a grandpa yet. Either way, the phrase “a woman’s market value” is simply creepy to me.
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m だて◎ゆめ, a male member.
Yes, I do.
Actually, come to think of it…
I’m over 60, but when I compare the photos, my eyes keep drifting toward the younger and younger women（笑）
Even though I’m telling myself, “You’re old enough—give it a rest…,” my eyes still keep heading toward the younger ones…
It’s pretty funny（笑）
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Kazu, a male member.
If you’re asking whether it happens or not, then yes, it probably does.
What’s your point?
Other
I’m columnist Shingo Lee (Shingori).
There’s a piece of big data (statistical information) that comes up often.
Apparently, until around age 35, women tend to see a man about three years older than themselves as the most attractive age—a relatively variable preference.
For men, however, no matter how old they get, 22 is supposedly always the most attractive age.
Well, if you assume that people’s income increases with age, perhaps they become more confident in negotiating and start pursuing younger women with higher market value.