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Nov 29, 2021 10:39
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大山 達也（スタッフ）
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This is Oyama from the staff.
I believe that with gifts, the time and effort someone spends thinking about the recipient while choosing the gift are more valuable than the gift itself.
When I used to work at a shop, I really enjoyed helping customers choose gifts for others and thought it was a wonderful experience.
When someone gives me a gift, I feel happy imagining that they chose it while thinking, “What do they like?” “Will they use it?” “Will they dislike it?” or “Will it suit them?”
🏅 倶楽部女性のご主人様に潤いを！
Mパパ、永遠の交際継続中！
B1タイプ〜A寄りパパです！
会う度大人は嫌と感じる方………ご相談ください。
Age: Private
👨 Male
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Gifts are important. There’s no point in giving her something she doesn’t want or won’t be happy to receive.
Pay more attention to her in your day-to-day interactions, and don’t miss the hints she gives you.
If you can’t figure out what she wants, ask her—or go shopping together.
If you have a general idea of her tastes and what she might like, visit a shop that fits those preferences and choose the best option while consulting with the staff.
Please don’t settle for men who have no initiative and can’t be relied on.
It feels even better when the fact that he chose it himself really resonates with you, doesn’t it?
Paper Airplane
🏅 ４０歳でリアル異世界転生したオッサン l 元金融マン → 現ＡＩ界隈
出張ホストの実技試験合格してるので、対女性への無難な前戯とかマナーに一定の知見あり。
Age: 40s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Flag Maker, a column writer.
I just buy something random and give it to them. Nothing fancy.
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I’m Aya, a female member.
The best thing to do is ask her directly. Also, if you tell her your budget in advance, she’ll likely let you know what she wants within that range, which makes things easier.
🏅 大阪の昼寝引きこもりトレーダー
スペ90以下のひとを厚く囲い込み、一生面倒見て実質一夫多妻で大切にしたい独身です。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m in Seattle.
If you’re worried about it, why not just add some extra cash to the allowance? I’m sure this answer will get lots of likes.
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I’m Shingo Lee (Shingori), a columnist.
Is she a PJ, perhaps?
For now, I’d recommend simply asking her. Alternatively, you could give her an inexpensive gift, such as a branded hand cream, and buy her what she wants separately during your date.
Women are generally happier when you give them something they genuinely want rather than trying to surprise them.