I like P. He’s a good person. And he’s single, so…?
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Even when my friends tell me,
“Give it up. There are plenty of better guys out there—are you stupid?”
I still meet him without an allowance.
I guess I’m simply in a “love is blind” state of mind.
It’s just a filter making me see him differently, and in reality, he’s just some older guy.
If my friends are telling me to stop, then this can’t really be a good relationship, can it?
What should I do?
I want to be happy. Please give me some advice on how I can learn to like someone my own age.
Maezawa from the CEO’s office here—I’ll answer too.
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If you believe that love is blind, then I think you should just leave things as they are. You’re happy right now, aren’t you?
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I’m BB7.
Have you ever seriously thought about what happiness means to you?
Not what other people tell you, but what do you yourself consider happiness?
Money? Love? Marriage? Freedom? Independence?
If your friends say someone’s a scumbag, does that make him one?
And if they say he’s a handsome single guy and an amazing person, does that make it true?
So, who are you?
That’s probably where you need to start.
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I’m Flag Maker, a column writer.
There’s nothing wrong with continuing to have fun for now, right? lol
At some point, you’ll probably feel ready to settle down. When that time comes, you can think about it then.
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I’m Shingo Lee (Shingori), a column writer.
Right now, you’re nothing more than a free hookup for this older man. You’re not someone he sees as a romantic prospect.
It’s not that love is blind—you’re simply turning away from the reality that he only needs you in that role.
Realize that you’re the one acting foolishly, not that the man is necessarily a jerk.
You don’t have to date someone your own age. People generally say that men pursue and women are pursued, but taking the initiative yourself can make a big difference.
Good luck.
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I’m Fuu, a column writer.
How should we define a “loser” or “jerk”? It seems odd to lump every papa registered with a club into the same category.
There are probably plenty of jerks among young men in the general population, too. And your friends’ opinions aren’t necessarily the absolute truth.
Some possible steps you could take are:
- Receive an allowance from your papa
- Put a little distance between yourself and your papa
- Get a boyfriend
That said, I can’t say for sure that having a boyfriend your own age will automatically make you happy.
No one else can bring you happiness. It’s something your own heart decides. Take some time to really reflect on what you want.
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I’m in Seattle.
Unless it’s either ① no allowance, with the intention of getting married someday, or ② an arrangement with an allowance, he’s ultimately just a sleazy old guy.
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I’m Aya, a female member.
If I knew the questioner’s age, the other person’s age, and what kind of relationship they have, I could give more specific advice. As things stand, I can’t say for sure that he’s really a jerk—there’s a one-in-a-thousand chance he might actually be a decent guy.
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“What should I do?” you ask?
Hey, hold on.
Sure, maybe they’re all scumbags.
But even if there were nothing but scumbags,
the first thing you should believe is that no one in this world is worthless—there isn’t a single person who’s truly trash.
There’s nothing wrong with liking people of any age.
It’s only natural that people with more life experience can be more charming and better at treating women, and it’s perfectly natural if you can’t bring yourself to like people your own age.
—Paper Airplane
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