I’m Ayase Nana ♡
Only she knows the answer to that, and if she’s popular, it wouldn’t be surprising if she had several supporters.
What about you?
If you’re asking her to see only you, then shouldn’t you narrow it down to just one woman yourself?
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First of all, unless he meets only you—or at most two or three other women—there’s no way you’ll know.
You probably don’t have the courage or confidence to focus exclusively on you, either…
—Kamihikōki
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Maezawa from the President’s Office here with an answer as well.
I think it’s worth starting by asking yourself whether you really need to insist on being the only one.
Just because you met on Christmas doesn’t necessarily mean you’re the only one.
That’s because the other papas may not be trying to have you all to themselves. It’s pretty common for them to say things like:
“Want to meet on Christmas Eve Eve?”
or
“How about Christmas Eve Eve Eve?”
As long as the two of you can get into the holiday spirit together, there’s no need to insist on the night of the 24th or the 25th.
I don’t think you should focus too much on exclusivity. You should also consider what’s more important: avoiding that, or saying too much and ending up parting ways.
Come to think of it, in *The Samurai Who Stole Fleas*, Seibei—the adopted son-in-law of a small-goods wholesaler—had his wife apply udon flour to his shaft to check whether he was cheating.
Her reasoning was that if he had been intimate with another woman, the flour would come off and she would know.
I suppose that’s the kind of exclusivity only a married couple can get away with.
Incidentally, Seibei tried to cover his tracks by reapplying the flour after cheating.
But the punchline was that it wasn’t ordinary udon flour—it had been seasoned. That’s how he was found out.
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I’m Joe.
I’m not saying this to make fun of you—I’m genuinely asking: Is it really unacceptable for her to have a boyfriend in addition to her papa? Are you looking for a relationship that’s essentially like being lovers? If you can see her on Christmas, would that reassure you that you’re at least her number one, so to speak, as a kind of litmus test?
Leaving aside a 20-year-old male college student, I suspect that men like you are in the minority here. Of course, being in the minority doesn’t make you wrong. But unless you’re actually 20, as Marika pointed out, you should realize that there are still 364 other days in the year. You should also understand that, like Aya, some women are perfectly capable of telling little lies while still enjoying their relationship with their papa.
With that in mind, why not enjoy that slightly agonizing feeling of wondering, “Am I the only one for her?” I think that’s what distinguishes you from a 20-year-old guy running on maximum hormones.
In any case, I hope you’re able to build a good relationship.
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I’m Flag Maker, a columnist.
Don’t overthink it. It’s not a line—it’s just a series of points. That’s how things were at that moment, and that’s all. The very next moment may be different.
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I’m Date◎Yume, a male member.
If she says, “I only see you. You’re the only papa (a male supporter) I have,” then you’re the only one.
Whether you meet on Christmas or anything else doesn’t matter at all. You just need to keep seeing her until you can be sure of that.
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I’m Aya, a female member.
There are some general signs—being able to meet on Christmas, contacting you almost every day, always answering when you call, giving you detailed information about her schedule when you’re not together, talking about her parents, introducing you to her friends, and seemingly living a modest lifestyle—but I don’t think you can say for certain based on those things alone.
I meet all of the criteria above, but I still have other papas and a boyfriend, and there are things I keep hidden. That said, I genuinely love my papa and believe I do my best for him.
So rather than limiting yourself to one woman, why not find someone who gives off an aura of love and makes you feel like you’re the only one? If you don’t know the truth, it’s basically the same as it not happening.
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