I’m Aya, a female member.
What counts as genuinely falling in love is entirely subjective, so unless you actually end up getting married, I don’t think you can say anything for certain.
I should know—I’m mistaken for being genuinely in love by almost all of my papas.
I’m a male member—and a loser at that.
This question is practically begging to get me roasted, so I’ll gladly answer it.
I define the final stage—being certain she’s genuinely in love with you—as the point when she says, “I don’t need an allowance.” But that alone doesn’t rule out the possibility that she isn’t in love and simply enjoys the intimacy too much, so I think there are several stages to determining whether it’s genuine love.
1. Compared with the beginning of the relationship, she initiates kisses more often. She may even kiss you outside the bedroom.
2. During sex, unlike at the beginning, she becomes extremely sensitive wherever you touch her, even with the lightest feather touch.
3. The number of times she climaxes clearly increases.
4. She increasingly asks to go on ordinary dates outside the bedroom, such as drives or trips to see the city lights.
5. During dinner dates, she starts to shy away a little from expensive restaurants.
6. She looks at your profile more often when she thinks you won’t notice.
7. She starts asking, “Are we dating?”
8. She tells you she doesn’t need an allowance.
0. She almost never directly says things like, “I like you” or “I love you.”
You may not need to check every box, but in my case, I consider a woman to have genuinely fallen for me when she fulfills all of them.
I don’t think 1–3 alone prove genuine feelings, since those can be acted out. Around 4 and 5, things start to look a little suspicious, and from 6 onward, she seems to be getting extremely close to genuinely falling for you. After going through 1–7 and reaching 8, I think it’s fair to call it confirmed.
I also have a feeling that point 0 is surprisingly accurate. Nothing in this world is absolute, so even if she checks every box above, I’d estimate the odds of genuine love at around 99%.
I’ve met three women at the club who fit the description above. One of them is an ideal supporter’s dream when it comes to oral sex. I’m currently dealing with a fourth woman, but she’s an A-type, so the process is a little different from what I described above.
I look forward to hearing the women’s counterarguments.
For the record, I registered with Universe because I wanted to genuinely fall in love, but I’ve realized I’m not really the type to fall in love at all, which has left me a little discouraged. I’ve forgotten how to fall in love...
I’m Osaka, a male member.
For example, if someone tells you, “I like you,” the person who believes it may end up genuinely falling for them, while someone who doesn’t might take it as nothing more than a greeting.
Isn’t it basically like that? lol
Trying to define someone else’s subjective feelings is just a pointless exercise, I guess. lol
I’m Kazu, a male member.
I don’t have any experience with that either, but there are plenty of couples out there, so I think accidents like that can happen.
