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Feb 18, 2019 19:22
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Column writer Saito here♪
You’re a female member, right...?
Speaking only for myself, I keep the possibility of a breakup in mind from the moment I meet someone.
(That doesn’t necessarily mean I can always feel grateful whether I’m the one ending things or being dumped, though... lol)
If you’re genuinely in love, I don’t think there’s any need to use a dating club.
When real feelings are involved, things can easily turn into a mess when you break up... The risks are endless.
Also, if a man has no intention of getting married, he won’t deliberately make a woman fall for him more than necessary.
(A man can only understand how truly frightening women can be if he’s experienced it firsthand.)
I may not be the kind of papa (a male supporter) women can still feel grateful toward after being cast aside, but avoiding that kind of hassle is why I use a dating club.
I think it’s perfectly fine for the questioner to be a little genuinely in love. lol