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Nov 25, 2021 08:11
8 answers
🏅 あなたの味方
お役に立てれば幸いです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe staff
Maezawa from the CEO’s office here.
As for “What do you think?”—that’s up to the person asking.
Do whatever you like.
That said, I feel like you may be fundamentally misunderstanding something.
I think about 99% of men prefer a woman who’s good at giving blow jobs.
Ah, although there do seem to be women who don’t do blow jobs, so you mean you want to date someone like that, right?
🏅 パパ活歴7年目突入
彼氏/既婚/他パパ/セフレOK/全力応援
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Fuu, a columnist.
Everyone’s different, but just as having more sexual experience doesn’t automatically mean a man is better at cunnilingus, I think the people who pay close attention to their partner and adapt are the ones who improve.
The simple formula of:
“Good at giving head = highly experienced”
doesn’t really apply.
Sometimes, while receiving oral, I find myself thinking, “So this must be what her ex-boyfriend—or a previous partner—liked.”
For me, it’s less about technique and more about the feeling. I like slow, close, lingering oral.
Once in a while, someone will give me a fast handjob with lots of spit, followed by deep-throat suction, but that actually turns me off, so I say thanks and switch roles.
I guess that’s what their other papas or boyfriends like. Once we get closer, I tell them that Fuu prefers things slow.
Other
I’m Nana Ayase ♡
Before I joined the dating club, my ex taught me everything.
It makes me sad that I’ve ended up with such a lewd body that can do just about anything… (T＿T)
Just because you’re good at oral sex doesn’t mean you’ve been with a lot of people. People who want to improve put in the effort and learn. You can become good at it by being taught by just one man.
Other
I’m BB7.
I once met a woman who was incredibly skilled, but apparently she wasn’t very popular and had only been with two or three people, including through clubs.
When I asked her about it, she said that since she wasn’t particularly attractive, she had studied and practiced on her own.
So rather than the number of people someone has been with, I think it can also come down to their natural aptitude and personal effort.
Other
My second boyfriend taught me everything, so the guys I dated afterward often told me I was good.
It’d be a waste to cut off a girl who’s skilled, and being inexperienced doesn’t necessarily mean she’s bad.
Maybe they just prefer girls who are “almost virgins” and less likely to cause drama these days.
Marika
🏅 プロおぢ。ほんとはプロパパと名乗りたいけど名乗るほどの実力がない名古屋の汚っさんです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m a male member, and honestly, I’m completely outmatched.
The woman I call the “blowjob goddess” has only been with three men: one boyfriend and two papas. I’m her fourth. So I wouldn’t exactly call her experienced.
She’s unbelievably good at it, but I’ve never once thought she was promiscuous—or rather, I’m far too overwhelmed to think about anything at the time.
“Aah!”
That’s all I can manage to let out before I’m left writhing in pleasure.
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Kazu, a male member.
Someone can be skilled even if they’ve only been with one person and have made a real effort to satisfy them. On the other hand, someone with a lot of experience can still be bad if they aren’t motivated. Being skilled doesn’t necessarily mean they’ve been with many people.
Besides, is there really anything wrong with having a lot of experience?
🏅 倶楽部女性のご主人様に潤いを！
Mパパ、永遠の交際継続中！
B1タイプ〜A寄りパパです！
会う度大人は嫌と感じる方………ご相談ください。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I agree.
I’m drawn to girls who can’t or won’t give blowjobs, and to those who try hard but don’t really improve.
If they’re too smooth or too skilled right from the start, it’s a bit of a turn-off…
That said, having a convulsive orgasm is more important to me…
—Paper Airplane