Tips Nov 23, 2021 17:22

I have a papa (a male supporter) who often proudly shows me photos and tells me about going to restaurants that are impossible to get reservations at or have Michelin stars.

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He always says, “You probably haven’t been to places like that, so I’ll take you next time,” but whenever he does take me, it’s just an ordinary restaurant where dinner costs around ¥4,000–5,000. Do you think this kind of papa doesn’t remember what he’s said, or is he looking down on me?
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ジョー・ルビコン
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Age: 60s 👨 Male Universe member
It’s Joe. It’s “next time,” not “someday,” you know. I’d like you to only lick the parts that feel good. I’ll be careful too.
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Mパパ、永遠の交際継続中! B1タイプ〜A寄りパパです! 会う度大人は嫌と感じる方………ご相談ください。
Age: Private 👨 Male Universe member
It’s not so much about the price range—the man I’m seeing simply has an unrefined palate, so nothing really impresses him. Even the fully booked restaurants or Michelin-starred places he chooses might be the kind of one-time-only spots you’d never want to visit again. Restaurants before they receive a Michelin star can be outstandingly delicious and genuinely moving, even at that price point. —Paper Airplane
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I’m Aya, a female member. I feel like he’s taking me for granted. If you’re important to him, I think he’d take you somewhere decent… Why not ask him once? If he refuses, that might be a bad sign…
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ダイ
A~Dまで一通りオファーの経験あり、多くても月1程度でLINEはスケジュール調整のみ、スマートに無理なく長期交際するスタイルです。
Age: 50s 👨 Male Universe member
I’m Dai, a male member. If you want to go to a Michelin-starred restaurant, I feel like you could simply say, “I’d love to go too,” and sweetly ask him to make plans with you. That said, even when you go to a restaurant that costs just ¥5,000 for dinner, you’re still going with his money, right? Maybe he just doesn’t want to take a woman who doesn’t normally show any appreciation to a Michelin-starred restaurant.
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You’re all talk. Then let’s book it right there—when are we going? Marika
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カズ
Age: Private 👨 Male Universe member
I’m Kazu, a male member. I think it’s both. Saying they’re looking down on you may sound harsh, but perhaps you haven’t become an important dating partner to them.
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