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I’m a male member in my 40s from outside a major city (I’ve only been a member for a few months). Personally, rather than casual papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan), I’m seriously looking for a mistress, so I’d like to retire from the club as soon as I find her. Out of 100 people, all 100 would generally consider having a mistress a bad thing. But the male members of this club are the 101st person and beyond, so different rules apply. There are many beautiful female members, so I have no trouble getting offers. However, when I meet them, I’m disappointed by how little substance they have about 70% of the time. The other 30% are women I feel I’d like to get to know while seeing where things go. If she looks like my type, I’ll ask her out. What I want to learn on a date is something beyond her beauty. That’s something I’d like to ask about separately, so this introduction has gotten rather long... Anyway, my question is: When female members often write, “I’m looking for a long-term relationship,” how long do they have in mind by “long-term”? I’d be grateful to hear a wide range of opinions, not only from the female members who have made such comments.
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I’m Saito, a column writer♪ Nice to meet you. I’m also a male member in my 40s from outside a major city. We have that in common. Reading Leaf-san’s comment about being in a long-term arrangement for over a year put me at ease. Haha. As for how I judge whether something is long-term, I’ve simply continued seeing her for so long that it feels like I’m doing it out of habit—or inertia, perhaps. At this point, we’re practically like family, and I even know her family (not as her papa). We don’t necessarily meet every month, and I’ve reached the point where I give her an allowance more like financial support, but when it really matters, she has a presence that’s second to none and provides me with emotional support. With a long-term arrangement, it’s important to look for the good points, but somehow, I feel the women who last the longest are the ones you simply have no particular reason to break up with.
2019/02/18 14:18
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Maezawa here. > When someone says, “I’m looking for a long-term relationship,” how long do they actually mean by “long-term”? Long-term means long-term. That doesn’t really answer the question, I know, but most women probably mean they’d like it to continue indefinitely—five years, ten years, or even longer… The idea of seeing multiple people can feel uncertain, so ideally, they’d be happy to receive long-term support from someone they’re compatible with. That said, if you ask, “So are you only looking for something long-term?” they may reply: “That’s my preference, but I’m open to something else too.”
2019/02/18 03:10
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