The girl I see most often received three offers in her first month after joining as an A-type member, so she clearly has that kind of potential. I’m worried about when she might move on to someone else.
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Besides her meal allowance, I also send her LINE gifts every week when we can’t meet.
Is that enough?
How much do you think I’d need to pay for her to stop seeing other men? I’m not saying she has to leave the club.
I’m Flag Maker, a column writer.
When it comes to money, the only option is to pay. But here’s some advice for situations involving feelings.
If there’s a possibility that your relationship with her could progress—or if you want to find out whether it can—one approach is to deliberately create some distance.
Make her feel just a little uneasy, wondering, “Huh? What happened?” That uneasiness can also be a form of interest. Deliberately leave some room for her to take an interest in you. If you come on too strong and don’t leave that space, things probably won’t turn out well.
But if she takes the bait, bite down hard from the very start.
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The fact that you’re constantly sending LINE gifts already makes your desperation obvious. She’s probably labeled you as someone she can easily get money out of.
Actually, A is the most money-focused of all, while some people are perfectly satisfied with dinner only…
You can’t keep someone around with money alone. If you feel like that’s what’s keeping the relationship going, you’re probably mistaken.
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I’m Paper Airplane, a male member.
If you want to win a medal or place at the Olympics, you can put in that much effort and ingenuity because you believe you might at least be the best in Japan—or even the best in the world.
When you believe you might be number one to the woman you’re seeing, I think you can bring that same level of commitment, effort, and creativity to the relationship.
Money may help keep you from being cut off, but when it comes to creating the kind of relationship you want, its power and effectiveness are probably close to zero. I think the best approach is to build a relationship where she doesn’t feel attracted to other men.
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I’m a man in my 60s, still trying to find my way.
I’ve been seeing my former Type A partner for four years now. Her staff member told me that she received offers from more than five men within less than a month of registering.
She originally signed up as a Type A member out of curiosity, so I never did little things just to keep her from cutting me off. That wouldn’t have felt right. I only gave her the minimum allowance for meals, too.
But based on her hobbies, I came up with a proposal that I thought would help us stay together long-term—and it turned out to be exactly right. The cost isn’t a burden for me, and she’s absolutely delighted.
What you should do depends on the person, so listen carefully to what she has to say… haha.
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This is Seattle.
I’ve been a member of Universe Club in Seattle for three years.
I’m not sure how much you should pay to keep the woman you like. However, she probably wants you to earn as much money as you can.
I wrote this answer in English and would like to get your permission. I got a 1 in English, so Google Translate was a big help. Sorry for copying and pasting.
Apparently, I’ve been a member of Universe Club for three years. I…
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I’m Joe who have been a member of universe club for 3 years.
I have no idea how much you should pay to keep your favorite lady. But I guess that the lady hopes to take your money as much as she can
I wrote this answer in stupid English. I would like to take your forgiveness.
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I’m Aya, a female member.
I feel like you may not have really seen her as an individual yet. As Mac says, if what she wants is simply “money itself,” then no matter how much you give her, she’ll just keep asking for more. On the other hand, if she has a clear need—like being ¥50,000 short each month while living alone—it’s easier to meet her expectations.
In any case, if money is the only thing you have going for you, you’ll quickly drop to second place or lower as soon as a wealthier papa (a male supporter) comes along.
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I’m date◎yume, a male member.
If you try another service, there will be new people and women you haven’t approached before, so I don’t think you need to worry too much.
More importantly, I think you should have more confidence in yourself.
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I’m Kazu, a male member.
There’s no way other people could know something like that. Ask the person directly.
Honestly, I’m more concerned about whether you’re okay, asking complete strangers a question like this.
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