Isn’t it strange that there’s a trend of considering women who ask for a low allowance humble and good girls? I can understand if they’re unattractive. Since no one wants to pay a high amount to be intimate with an unattractive woman, asking for a high allowance when you’re unattractive is completely delusional.
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But when it comes to women who are plainly beautiful to everyone’s eyes (at least Platinum), isn’t it strange that they ask for such a low amount?
They photograph well and are clearly attractive, which means they’re guaranteed to receive plenty of offers from men.
As a result, they also meet a lot of men. I’m sure there are countless men who would happily pay 5. Personally, I wouldn’t date a man who says, “Even after negotiating, I can only pay 5.” I always have close to ten men who will pay more and are kind without asking for anything unusual, so there’s no reason to date a low-paying man. It would just be a waste of time.
I don’t usually say this about myself, but I’m still in my teens, young, and cute. Even if it isn’t because of my personality, I believe my attractive appearance is an asset that allows me to receive a high allowance.
People answering here keep saying that there are plenty of girls—even Platinum or Black—who ask for an allowance of only 3 or 4. But don’t you think it’s dangerous when an obviously attractive woman asks for such a low amount? There are literally countless men who offer more than 3 or 4, so when someone says a small amount is enough, I assume they’re prioritizing efficiency. If the people answering don’t think that at all, they’ve simply been completely conditioned to believe the image that such women are humble and good girls.
Why doesn’t anyone consider what might be behind an attractive woman saying that a small amount is enough?
I’m Shingo Lee (Shingori), a columnist.
That’s because an allowance isn’t seen as payment for good looks, a pleasant personality, or being good in bed.
Rather than being direct compensation, the allowance is a tool that connects papas and papa-katsu girls.
Books at a bookstore usually cost around ¥1,500, regardless of how good or bad the content is, right?
I think allowances work the same way.
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I’m Paper Airplane, a male member.
Some people place a strong emphasis on money, while others don’t—their values and sources of enjoyment vary.
Incidentally, “compensation for the inconvenience” tends to be higher when you’re dealing with someone you dislike, and you usually receive more from people you don’t like either.
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I’m Fuu, a column writer.
Yes, exactly（笑）
At least she comes across as more humble and likable than the person who asked the question. If there was some ulterior motive, I’ll take responsibility for choosing her, so you don’t need to worry about me.
You get plenty of offers from papas (male supporters) who provide an allowance you’re satisfied with, so you don’t need to worry about other girls.
There are probably also girls who want a regular papa (male supporter) so badly that they’d accept a lower allowance, even if they haven’t been able to find one. They’re free to think that way, too.
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This is Ayase Nana ♡
Do you really think a teenager can be easy to talk to, perfect when it comes to intimacy, intelligent, soothing, well-mannered, and someone you wouldn’t be embarrassed to be seen with… all at once?
Even in his 30s, my ex was still a kid who smelled like urine. He couldn’t adapt to different situations, and I was embarrassed to be seen with him.
So yes, I also have 50,000 yen as my standard. I won’t accept anything below that.
No matter what anyone says, I think you should stick to your own principles.
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I’m Dai, a male member.
For you, the allowance seems to be the entire point of meeting men.
But you may not understand this: some women genuinely date men they’ve grown close to.
An allowance is necessary to maintain a clear boundary, but that doesn’t mean the amount has to be substantial.
This is a world beyond the understanding of a child like you, so please take your leave.
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I’m a male member who’s not exactly one of the winners.
I mostly agree, but this is how I would phrase the question:
“I’m not confident about my looks and don’t get many offers. At best, I’d probably be considered Gold—most likely Standard.
I feel it may be unreasonable for someone like me to expect a generous allowance, but I don’t quite understand why Platinum or Black women who want a generous allowance are often treated as overly money-focused and viewed negatively. Why is that?”
If you’re young and confident in your looks, I think you can aim higher. But to get the allowance you want, I think it’s best not to let your guard down—even in a Q&A space like this—and to act like a virgin with virtually no experience with men.
Be good at fooling us papas♪
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I’m Kazu, a male member.
Was there talk of three or four?
It seems the person asking the question values women in their teens, but I don’t like that—I find them too young and inexperienced. People’s values are diverse in this way.
You should confidently state the allowance you want, based on your own beliefs. Then you can date someone whose views and expectations align with yours. That’s what meetings through a dating club are all about.
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