For a long time, happiness to me meant becoming more beautiful on the outside.
But recently, I’ve started wishing that my mental illness would get better so I wouldn’t have to take medication, and that I could make some friends.
I’ve been approached by people because of my appearance, but it doesn’t make my anxiety go away, and being a virgin is also something I’m self-conscious about, lol.
Happiness, in a nutshell, is being able to do what you want and work hard toward your goals.
I feel small moments of happiness when I’ve made a beautiful, delicious bento or when I’ve managed my time just right.
—Matsurika
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I’m Flagmaker, a columnist.
My goal is to have a good death. So I’m not particularly concerned about whether I’m happy right now.
Whether I succeed and become happy or fail and end up unhappy, either is fine with me. I value the experience more than the outcome.
Besides, I’m in the club because I’m unhappy.
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I’m Osaka, a male member.
For me, it’s about living a rich and fulfilling life.♡
To put it more specifically, our time is limited, so I want to fill as much of it as possible with laughter, fun, and excitement.
Of course, making that happen also requires some hard work and patience, but I think finding ways to minimize those is part of living a fulfilling life.
I don’t have money, I’m not popular, my dreams haven’t come true… It’s fine to worry about these things to a reasonable extent, but if you don’t have something, then change your mindset and think of ways to live well without it. I’m not saying you should give up, but if you feel like you’re spending too much time worrying, giving up can be one option too.
The pandemic threw my life off track and made a lot of things difficult and uninteresting. But since it wasn’t something I could change on my own, I looked for things I could do. Registering with UC was one of them, lol. A lot of people around me complain and lament, but personally, I’m grateful to COVID for giving me the opportunity to think of new ways to live.
Of course, I hate COVID itself. People have died because of it, so I think it’s absolutely awful. I only said something that might sound insensitive to emphasize my point.
If I have time to regret things, I’d rather spend that time doing something else. That’s about how I feel.
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Maezawa from the CEO’s office here, too.
Happiness means something different to everyone, and I’m sure some people don’t feel happy at all.
So as long as you know which direction you should be heading in, I think that’s what matters most.
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I’m Meg, a female member.
That’s the spirit.
It sounds like your outlook is changing for the better. Maybe there’s someone in your life who’s guiding you in a positive direction.
If you’ve met someone who appreciates both your appearance and your inner self, I don’t think you’ll need to worry about still being a virgin going forward.
For now, focus on getting healthy in both body and mind. I’m rooting for you.
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I’m Aya, a female member.
To me, happiness means building wealth through my own efforts and living a peaceful life. Rather than depending entirely on men, I want to earn money through my own work and determination and support myself that way. I felt anxious as a student because I couldn’t do that then. Now, I’m happy that I can stand on my own two feet.
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