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Sep 24, 2021 22:18
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Even when I think, “She’s totally my type,” sometimes the smell or the feel of her skin just doesn’t work for me.
What are some non-negotiable points you all have?
5 answers
A~Dまで一通りオファーの経験あり、多くても月1程度でLINEはスケジュール調整のみ、スマートに無理なく長期交際するスタイルです。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Dai, a male member.
Whether I expect you to be devoted exclusively to me depends on the allowance.
Please offer at least around ¥500,000 a month before saying that.
Or perhaps your condition is that he has to be an attractive older man, but based on your question, he doesn’t sound like one.
As for the other points, I think you can find someone like that if you look.
The smell down there might be a dealbreaker for me too. I’m not really sure about skin texture, but I might avoid someone with severe eczema.
🏅 プロおぢ。ほんとはプロパパと名乗りたいけど名乗るほどの実力がない名古屋の汚っさんです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Makéotoko, a male member.
The one thing I won’t compromise on is 10 for an adult relationship (intimate), pay-per-meeting. Even if she says, “3 is fine,” I’ll still give her 10. Someone, try saying it.
🏅 大阪の昼寝引きこもりトレーダー
スペ90以下のひとを厚く囲い込み、一生面倒見て実質一夫多妻で大切にしたい独身です。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m in Seattle.
If you make enough offers, you’ll find someone.
I used to be a shy otaku, so during my first year, I only reached out to women with long black hair.
Other
I’m Aya, a female member.
My one non-negotiable is that he can’t be overweight. I’m into men with a solid build… Chest muscles don’t develop unless you really work at them, so I like men who are disciplined about working out or still have the muscle they built playing competitive sports in school.
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m D*** Yume, a male member.
As people often say in this Q&A box, the reality is that quite a few people—including myself—don’t fully understand this.
First of all, the women who appear in front of you are a reflection of yourself. Take a good look at who you are. You’d think that would make it obvious you shouldn’t make unreasonable demands of women…
There are plenty of people in this world, myself included, who are happy just to say whatever they want(笑)
The one thing I can’t compromise on is this:
If I ask, “Would you be okay with dating?” and she says, “Yes,” but then refuses to follow through, I can’t forgive that.
Once she says, “I’m okay with dating,” then regardless of her appearance or physical compatibility, I’ll stick with her for three years without complaint.
That said, up until the point when I ask, “Would you be okay with dating?” I of course carefully consider and check all sorts of things(笑)