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Sep 23, 2021 11:04
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You don’t often meet a woman who brings you that kind of good fortune, so you want to cherish her.
I came across a question like this a little while ago, and it prompted me to ask my own.
I’ve been seeing this woman for several years, but ever since she changed jobs, it’s become increasingly difficult for our schedules to line up.
Along with feeling lonely, I’ve started wondering whether she might find another papa.
I’m considering offering her a better job than the one she has now and having her leave her current position, but the industries are completely different. Would it be upsetting for her to switch industries and lose the opportunity to use her qualifications?
I want to have a positive impact on her life as well. I’d appreciate your advice.
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I’m Aya, a female member.
Wouldn’t that be taking things a bit too far? It should be fine if you’re very close with her, but… considering the risk of making her dislike you even more, it’s probably safer to leave it alone.
🏅 プロおぢ。ほんとはプロパパと名乗りたいけど名乗るほどの実力がない名古屋の汚っさんです。
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I’m a male member, and my username is Makeo.
I’m seriously bad luck for women.
A~Dまで一通りオファーの経験あり、多くても月1程度でLINEはスケジュール調整のみ、スマートに無理なく長期交際するスタイルです。
Age: 50s
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I’m Dai, a male member.
Having to switch industries and no longer being able to use your qualifications must be heartbreaking.
Many business owners may not care much what kind of business they’re in as long as it makes money.
But especially for licensed professionals, they’re people who wanted to do that particular job so badly that they paid to obtain the necessary qualifications.
For them, the idea of switching to another line of work simply because it pays more doesn’t really resonate.
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I’m Kazu, a male member.
Unless they want you to, I don’t think you should get so involved in someone else’s life. Sometimes, respecting someone means knowing when to give them space.
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I’m date◎yume, a male member.
I completely understand how you feel.
Still, maybe it’s enough to simply keep an eye on her from a distance. Every now and then, send a casual message like, “How are things going?” to stay in touch, and be there for her when she hits a rough patch.