I always enjoy reading this site. I’m a female member registered as Type A.
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I’m on the verge of genuinely falling for a man who recently made me an offer (he seemed to be in his early 40s, perhaps).
At the very least, I’ve found myself thinking, “I registered as Type A, but I’d like to try having a relationship that goes beyond that.”
I’m sorry for making this all about myself, but I grew up in what was, in some ways, a lonely family environment, so I can’t help being drawn to his fatherly charm.
Whenever I’m trying to do something awkward—like carry something heavy or look for something in my bag—he softly asks me, almost in a whisper, “Are you okay?” or “Can you manage?” It really makes my heart flutter. I’m a pervert, aren’t I...? I’m sorry.
Since we met through a dating club, and I’m registered as Type A at that, I’ve been constantly wondering what I should do from here—or whether I should even hope for anything more in the first place.
To be direct, would it be wrong if I told him, “I’d like to have a romantic relationship with you”?
I’m a confused woman in my 60s.
To the person who asked the question:
I think it sounds good.
To Mac:
Are you talking about me? (LOL)
But I’ll make sure to raise them properly and then set them free. (^◇^;)
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I’m Maezawa from the President’s Office, and I’ll answer this one too.
Most men who make offers to women with Dating Type A are hoping the woman will develop feelings for them. They’re usually waiting for her to say something like, “I’m free today.”
So I think more men do end up starting a relationship from there. However, as Mac mentioned, some men lose interest once they’ve “won her over”—in other words, after being intimate just once.
If he’s the latter type, a painful breakup may be waiting for you, which would be difficult. But in terms of probability, I feel there are more of the former type.
> Would it be wrong if I told him, “I’d like to have a romantic relationship with you”?
It wouldn’t be wrong at all.
Why not tell him directly after your next meal together, “I’d like to have a romantic relationship with you”?
You may be able to get a sense of what happens next from his expression, so try putting yourself in the mindset of a mentalist and carefully observe everything he does.
The easiest things to notice are probably his hand movements, eye movements, and blinking. It may be worth paying close attention to the rest of him too…
Though maybe that’s getting a little too obsessive.
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I’m Dai, a male member.
A gentleman probably wouldn’t be the one to suggest getting intimate with an A-type woman, so if you don’t make the first move, I feel like it may never happen.
That’s quite an enviable situation.
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I’m だて◎ゆめ, a male member.
Just because someone is Type A doesn’t mean an adult relationship is off the table—if both parties want it, that’s perfectly fine. We’re both adults, after all… lol
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