Tips
Sep 18, 2021 15:39
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I searched on Google and looked at the profiles of popular members featured in Universe’s articles, but it’s harder than I expected.
I’ve heard it’s better to write why you joined, but that you shouldn’t mention anything directly related to money, like tuition or living expenses. At the same time, I don’t have some lofty goal like starting a business or studying abroad.
I’ve also heard that it’s better to describe your hobbies in broader terms rather than making them seem niche. Apparently, writing too much can make you look overly eager, while using too many emojis can seem sloppy, and writing too formally can make you seem unapproachable.
What length do you prefer, and what kind of information would make you happy to see in a profile?
5 answers
🏅 あなたの味方
お役に立てれば幸いです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe staff
Maezawa from the President’s Office here.
Don’t worry about how long it is. Whether it’s long or short, the length itself won’t affect how it’s evaluated, so I think you should just write what you want to say.
In fact, popular women often don’t write anything at all.
Also, since the club comments already include various details, the personal comment could simply say something like:
“I just registered and I’m looking forward to seeing what kind of people I’ll meet.”
Something along those lines should be fine.
🏅 パパ活歴7年目突入
彼氏/既婚/他パパ/セフレOK/全力応援
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Fuu, a column writer.
Please check out this article on Cinderella, the club’s blog for female members, written by Mamia from the club staff:
“How to Develop Your Self-Branding Skills in papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan): Lessons from Women at the Top of the Offer Rankings”
https://universe-club.jp/female/offer_top10/
It includes specific examples, so I hope you find it helpful.
Other
I’m BB7.
Sometimes I see people who write incredibly long profiles, and honestly, it puts me off a little. I don’t feel like reading all the way through, and I start wondering if they’re a little too in love with themselves.
Four or five lines should be plenty:
Hello, I’m ○○.
I’m currently working as ●○. I joined because I’d like to talk with older men. My hobbies are ○○ and ××, and lately I’ve been really into ○○.
I hope we can get along!
Of course, it’s different if you have something special you really want to promote or highlight, but something this simple is more than enough. Personally, I pay more attention to the staff’s comments and the way someone speaks and comes across in their videos.
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Kazu, a male member.
Men read women’s comments to find someone who matches their preferences. That’s why I don’t think generic comments are likely to make a man want to send an offer.
So when I read a woman’s comment, I look for her personality. If you’re writing a comment, I’d encourage you to let your individuality show.
🏅 プロおぢ。ほんとはプロパパと名乗りたいけど名乗るほどの実力がない名古屋の汚っさんです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m an unsuccessful male member.
I’m not sure what type of arrangement the questioner is looking for, but as a sample profile for a Type B arrangement, how about something like this?
Nice to meet you. I’m ○○, a university student.
Paying my tuition certainly isn’t easy, but more than that, I’ve been struggling with decisions about my future. That’s why I joined, hoping I could get advice from an experienced older gentleman.
At the moment, the only thing I can think of giving in return is my smile. However, if we click and you’re a wonderful person, I’d be open to considering a relationship beyond dinner on our second date.
*I’ve only been with one person so far, so I’d really appreciate it if you could gently take the lead. m(_ _)m
My special skill is massage, and I’m also learning how to clean ears lately.
I get nervous at very expensive restaurants or sushi places, so I’d love to explore delicious casual local food together♪
I sincerely look forward to receiving an offer from a wonderful older gentleman. I’d love to talk with you about all kinds of things!