I’m Dai, a male member.
Other than a small number of men who insist on going without protection, you should assume that most men won’t appreciate it, since they’re concerned about catching something.
Personally, I find it sexy when a woman takes the top position and moves her hips.
I’m Tetsu, a male member.
It wouldn’t necessarily put me off, but going without protection is the issue. If she has unprotected sex on the first meeting, there’s a good chance she does the same with other men, too, which makes the risk of STIs much higher. That’s what would really concern me.
I’m a papa (a male supporter) who always gives in.
If someone who seems demure and well-mannered during a dinner date suddenly transforms in bed, climbs on top, and starts having unprotected sex, I’d be happy and wouldn’t pull away even a millimeter. But afterward, these two thoughts would keep running through my mind nonstop:
- I need to get tested for STIs.
- I can’t date any other women until I get the results...
Something exactly like this happened to me before. She looked incredibly demure, but after finishing her blowjob, she started deep-kissing me from above, initiated mutual rubbing, and was moaning away before climbing on top and having unprotected sex with me.
Then she said, “I’m on the pill, so it’s fine.”
It would’ve been shameful not to accept what was being offered, so I had no choice but to finish inside her. I ended up taking a break from dating other women for a while.
I mean, if a woman asks you to go without protection, can you really say no? You already know how good it feels.
I’d never be the one to suggest it, but if she says it, of course I’m going to do it. I don’t want to embarrass her. Besides, deep down, men always want to go without protection, right? I lose to temptation every time. That’s why I’m a loser.
My answer to the questioner is: “It wouldn’t put me off at all.”
I’m Paper Airplane, a male member.
In that case, I think it should be fine as long as you use protection.
That said, the key is whether the lead-up and atmosphere feel natural.
I’m Kazu, a male member.
That’s fine with someone I’ve been seeing for a while, but when we’re not that comfortable with each other yet, it catches me off guard and turns me off.
