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Sep 12, 2021 11:52
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There are many male and female answerers and column writers here, but have you ever favorited or made an offer to someone your acquaintance—an answerer or column writer—was already making offers to or keeping as a regular?
Also, do answerers make offers to each other, or writers to each other?
Does this ever lead to jealousy-related trouble?
4 answers
いっつ・みぃ
Male
Send a reverse offer to this responder
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Other
It’s me, It’s Me.
I don’t have any personal experience with this, but if you’re talking about mutual offers like that, I don’t think there’d be any trouble as long as everyone acts openly, honestly, and fairly instead of sneaking around.
You can tell what people are like from the way they write—even between the lines. Since you respect each other, it’s fine whether you choose to keep your distance or take things one step further.
>> Mr. Loser, saying you’re disliked is absolutely ridiculous. Both my favorite and I are huge fans of you, Mr. Loser, and we even have fun looking at your comments together during our dates.
Oh, sorry—you were actually talking about Mr. Maezawa, right? LOL
>>>> Mr. Loser
Wow, thank you for the wonderful suggestion. That sounds like so much fun.
Am I nervous? LOL
I’m pretty confident I can disappoint your expectations(^^)
🏅 プロおぢ。ほんとはプロパパと名乗りたいけど名乗るほどの実力がない名古屋の汚っさんです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m a male member who’s pretty much a loser.
To the female respondents: I get so depressed when I’m turned down for an adult relationship (intimate) that I don’t want anything beyond dinner. I’d love to have dinner with each of you at least once and talk a lot. If you wouldn’t mind, I’d really appreciate a reverse offer—but I’m sure none will come my way^^;
To the male respondents: You probably dislike me even more than the female respondents do, so I’d love to meet and chat with anyone who doesn’t hate me. I might even find it dangerously more fun than going on dates with women.
Also, if I happened to be seeing the same woman as another male respondent, I’d basically back off. I’d choose male friendship over the relationship. Whether there’s any friendship there or not.
■It’s Me
Would you like to have dinner with my favorite woman and me? (lol) It sounds like it could be fun♪
If you’re interested, please contact Maezawa (me). If you could send me your LINE invitation link, I’d love to become friends in seconds.
I’m too nervous to invite you myself^^;
A~Dまで一通りオファーの経験あり、多くても月1程度でLINEはスケジュール調整のみ、スマートに無理なく長期交際するスタイルです。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Dai, a male member.
Before becoming an answerer, there was just one time when I became interested in a female answerer who wasn’t answering questions anymore and asked Mr. Maezawa about her.
Her area was too far away at the time, so I didn’t make her an offer, though…
Since becoming an answerer, I haven’t gotten to know anyone else in particular.
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Kazu, a male member.
Sometimes a friend who’s also a respondent and I make offers to the same woman.
As I talk with her, I may realize, “Oh, she must be talking about [name],” and ask, “Is that [name]?” Sometimes I ask, and sometimes I don’t.
If I find out that a woman I made an offer to is seeing another respondent, I choose to keep my distance. The relationships between fellow respondents are more important to me than my connection with a woman I’ve just met.
I do sometimes meet female respondents, but I avoid sleeping with them because I don’t want things to become complicated, including jealousy, if I sleep with another respondent’s partner.