I’m torn between a creepy older man offering ¥500,000 a month and a handsome guy offering ¥100,000 per meeting.
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Being with the creepy older man is nothing but painful, though it’s great for my wallet.
I have fun with the handsome guy, but it feels like the allowance is a little low.
Which one do you think would make me happier??
I’m Dai, a male member.
Between a creepy old guy offering 500,000 yen a month and a handsome guy offering 100,000 yen per meeting, the latter is definitely the rarer find.
If he’s handsome, you can have plenty of fun without even paying 100,000 yen per meeting.
The handsome guy will probably get bored of you sooner, so the creepy old guy offering 500,000 yen a month might be the one who lasts longer.
Either way, you’re not going to be all that happy.
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This is Nana Ayase♡
It’d be a waste to let go of a handsome papa,
and a generous papa would be a shame to lose too.
Try to maintain a good relationship with both of them.
Are you the type who wants to focus on just one person?
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I’m a male member and a total loser.
A handsome papa who offers ¥100,000 pay-per-meeting is a super rare find, right? You practically never see such a scarce species in the papa world, so I think you should do everything you can to secure him.
If you could get that handsome papa to meet you twice a month and didn’t ask for anything more, you’d probably be a winner in the papa-katsu world.
Although he probably has an STD, lol. A handsome papa who pays ¥100,000 is probably having unprotected sex with his girls, so be careful about that.
In conclusion: if he’s willing to use protection, definitely secure the handsome papa. Do your best to get him to meet you twice a month—but keep yourself from falling for him.
As for the creepy old guy offering ¥500,000 a month, I’d say dump him unless there’s some very compelling reason not to.
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I’m Fuu, a column writer.
Neither of them seems likely to find happiness.
The monthly-arrangement guy is gross, so his unhappiness is guaranteed. The pay-per-meeting guy is handsome, but he can’t date unless he gets paid. Even though he’s handsome, she likes him—but she can’t make him her boyfriend. She’ll probably end up agonizing over what’s clearly just a game.
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Even though you have quite a sharp tongue, I do like that you’re trying to focus on just one person.
I think you should decide based on what matters most to you.
Why not meet the handsome guy who gives you 10 per meeting five times?
—Marika
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I’m Maezawa from the CEO’s office, and I’ll answer too.
Even if it’s ¥100,000 per pay-per-meeting arrangement, meeting five times a month would come to the same amount. When you say it’s low-paying, does that mean you can only meet once a month?
If so, it might be fine to date both of them—see the handsome one occasionally to refresh yourself, for example.
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It’s me.
If you’re having trouble deciding, why not try seeing both of them? Continue with both if nothing feels off; if something does, you can end things with one of them. I think that way, you’ll be able to keep both sides of your needs balanced.
You’ll get a more reliable answer by taking action than by overthinking it.
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I’m Shingo Lee (Shingori), a columnist.
Sure, a handsome guy would be better, but you’re not going to find happiness that easily.
There’s nothing healthy about having the mindset to sell your soul cheaply to such a miserable old guy for a monthly ¥500,000 allowance. Unless you rethink your values somewhere along the way, you won’t be happy.
There are countless things more important than money.
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