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Sep 11, 2021 09:02
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Generally speaking, is an allowance of 60,000 yen per meeting considered high?
When discussing the allowance, I’m usually offered either 50,000 yen per meeting or 200,000 yen per month for three to four meetings.
Personally, I’d like to receive 60,000 yen, but I’m worried it might come across as a little too pricey or subtly stingy, so I can’t bring myself to say it ^^;
7 answers
🏅 あなたの味方
お役に立てれば幸いです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe staff
I’ll answer as Maezawa from the president’s office.
In Japan, even numbers generally aren’t considered very lucky, so people tend to go with 3, then 5, then 7.
So if you want 6, you might try saying something like, “I was hoping for 7…” in a coy, hesitant way.
Since 7 is also known as the lucky seven, I feel like 7 would be better. (笑)
There’s not much point in worrying about what’s considered “一般的.” It all depends on your appeal.
If you’re turned down often, you may be lacking a little in appeal. If you’re often told yes, then I’d say you have that much charm.
Besides, if you receive the amount you were hoping for, you’ll probably feel that he’s a good man and want to treat him well while you’re together.
Ultimately, I think that will also increase the man’s satisfaction.
Other
I’m Aya, a female member.
I don’t think 60,000 yen is high at all. It would be unreasonable to expect 100,000 yen or more from every man, but plenty of men can offer 60,000 yen.
🏅 倶楽部女性のご主人様に潤いを!
Mパパ、永遠の交際継続中!
B1タイプ〜A寄りパパです!
会う度大人は嫌と感じる方………ご相談ください。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m a male member, Paper Airplane.
If you’ve found a good papa, it’s probably better not to say that anymore.
When someone says that, I can’t help but think she must not be the kind of woman who can maintain a long-term arrangement—or isn’t very popular.
🏅 40歳でリアル異世界転生したオッサン l 元金融マン → 現AI界隈
出張ホストの実技試験合格してるので、対女性への無難な前戯とかマナーに一定の知見あり。
Age: 40s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Flag Maker, a column writer.
For me, even 60,000 yen is a lot. Even 50,000 yen feels expensive ^^;
Adult relationships are pricey...
A~Dまで一通りオファーの経験あり、多くても月1程度でLINEはスケジュール調整のみ、スマートに無理なく長期交際するスタイルです。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Dai, a male member.
Even if it’s six, it’s fine as long as the man agrees.
If you can’t agree, you can simply part ways.
By the way, women generally don’t know their own rank, so please don’t write things like, “I’m a Platinum female member.”
You’ll probably say that the man told you even though you didn’t want to know…
At that point, you don’t come across as high-class so much as a woman who wants to feel superior to other women.
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Kazu, a male member.
There isn’t much difference between 50,000 and 60,000 yen, so I don’t think that’s particularly high.
It does feel like an awkward number, but if you’re hoping for 60,000 yen, why not just say so?
🏅 プロおぢ。ほんとはプロパパと名乗りたいけど名乗るほどの実力がない名古屋の汚っさんです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m a losing male member.
The going rate for allowances at Universe is 60,000 yen or more.
※I’ve registered it as a text shortcut. When I type “Yu,” the rest appears automatically.
So there’s absolutely no problem—let’s keep improving ourselves and aim for 70,000 or 80,000 yen.
Any man who complains about 60,000 yen should be labeled a money-grubber. Questioner (Mr. Maezawa), you’re not a money-grubber—the men complaining about 60,000 yen are the real money-grubbers.
If someone offers 50,000 yen, say:
“Would you really give me 50,000 yen just for a handjob? I love you♡ I want to see you every day♡”
Then hug him and kiss him on the cheek♪
■P.S.
I’m going on a date with a girl whose pay-per-meeting allowance is 170,000 yen.