I’m Flag Maker, a column writer.
Hmm, I wonder. Until her schedule is completely booked, she’ll probably think, “There might be another papa (a male supporter) who offers a better allowance,” and accept any offer that comes her way for the time being.
Of course, girls who are flooded with offers and think, “I already get more than enough allowance. Besides, these papas’ feelings are getting way too intense… I’m completely full. I don’t feel like accepting any more offers,” are a different story.
I also think that increasing the number of times you meet isn’t based on money alone—it depends on both the money and the person and chemistry involved.
If you can give me a little more information about him, I can even read the situation with a tarot reading.
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I’m Fuu, a columnist.
Women may turn to papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) because they need money for various reasons. So if the allowance isn’t enough, they’ll probably try to make up the difference by having multiple papas (male supporters).
If you want her to see only you, I think you should discuss it with her and provide the allowance she needs for a monthly arrangement.
If you can’t do that, you should let it go.
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I’m Meg, a female member.
That’s not the case at all. I quickly put my account on hold.
I really like my papa, so I’d be happy if we could see each other more often.
Still, someone like that may be rare when you only have one papa…
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Maezawa from the CEO’s office here, weighing in as well.
Regardless of how often you meet, it’s best to assume that most women have other papas (male supporters).
If you want exclusivity, make use of the institution of marriage.
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I’m Aya, a female member.
I think it really depends on the person. If a woman receives very few offers, she might have just one papa (a male supporter) whom she sees once or twice a month.
If you increase how often you meet, you may become closer and eventually be her only papa, but whether she even wants to meet more often depends on the woman. So even if you tell her you’d like to see her more, she may simply say, “I wouldn’t want to, even for money.” It’s impossible to say here how likely negotiations to increase the frequency of your meetings would be to succeed.
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I’m Kazu, a male member.
I think it depends on the person.
There are plenty of women who are perfectly happy with an allowance once or twice a month. Those women probably only have one papa to begin with, and pushing for more frequent meetings could stress them out and end up backfiring.
I think you’ll be happier in the long run if you stop insisting on being their only papa.
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