Can true love exist in a relationship that began here?
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Do you ever wish happiness for someone you met here?
It doesn’t feel like true love at all—I feel as though I’m being treated as less than a person, like an object. Am I thinking about this the wrong way?
Maezawa from the CEO’s office will answer as well.
> I can’t help feeling like I’m being treated as less than a person—like an object.
If that’s how you feel, then I think the person you’re seeing now is treating you that way.
There are better men out there, so please take the time to find one.
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I’m Flagmaker, a columnist.
Hmm… when you get right down to it, we men are paying an allowance and “consuming” them, so there’s really no need to do this if we genuinely want them to be happy.
If I think, “I want the women I’m seeing to be happy,” I end up hating myself. So “kindly consuming them” feels more honest to me.
Not treating them like objects, but like food—the thing being consumed.
I observe table manners, give thanks to the earth, and savor every bite.
Although, if anything, maybe my money—and my “private parts”—are the ones being consumed. Am I consuming or being consumed? LOL.
I’m kindly consuming them because I want them to like me, or ideally, to fall for me. That makes me “a bad person pretending to be good.”
Men who treat women like objects are “obviously bad people.”
If that’s the case, though, I feel like the men who treat women like objects are easier to understand—and easier to deal with.
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I met someone I came to love dearly here.
We went through a painful breakup, too.
But the next person I fell in love with, I also met here.
Treating someone like an object is just awful.
I hope you meet someone wonderful soon.
Marika
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I’m Fuu, a columnist.
A serious, romantic relationship would be too much for me, but I do want you to be happy. I support you dating your boyfriend or other papas, too. I respect the women involved and treat them kindly and with care.
I don’t know what your papa is specifically like, but even if you cherish him, if he doesn’t cherish you in return, wouldn’t it be better to end things? It sounds exhausting.
I hope you find a papa you can enjoy this experience with.
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I’m Kazu, a male member.
Even though an allowance is involved, this is still a relationship between two people. It may not be pure love, but I naturally think about my partner’s happiness and satisfaction, just as I would in any ordinary relationship. I don’t pursue relationships with people who don’t understand that.
Relationships are a mirror, so I believe my partners show me about as much consideration as I show them.
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I’m Meg, a female member.
That sounds really hard… It seems like your papa (a male supporter) doesn’t value you enough.
Since I can’t see mine very often, I pray that he stays well, has a good day at work, and makes it home safely.
Because the time I get to spend by his side is so precious, I want to do everything I can to comfort and support him.
It would be wonderful if meeting me made my papa feel even a little happier.
I hope you receive an offer from someone who sees and values you as a person…
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I’m Dai, a male member.
Do you look down on the men you date and treat them like objects—for example, like ATMs?
Relationships are a two-way street, so I think people with similar attitudes naturally gravitate toward each other.
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