There’s a papa who goes out of his way to tell me he likes me because I don’t do anything flashy or dress up unnecessarily.
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He’s basically implying that he likes me because I’m a low-cost woman, right?
I want to stand up to him, cut him off, and then rub it in by showing him I’m out on dates with a generous papa.
For context, he believes I’m dating only him because he keeps professing how devoted he is, lol.
Do I really have to carry a designer handbag all the time to avoid getting involved with strange men?
People say handbags are a deterrent, and lately I’ve really started to feel that way.
Are there any brands or bags you’d recommend? Is Hermès going too far?
I’m a woman in my late 20s and a member.
Maezawa from the CEO’s office here, and I’ll answer this too.
> I want to defy him, cut him off, and then flaunt the fact that I’m dating a generous papa.
No, that’s not right. You’ve got it wrong.
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I think you’ve got it completely wrong.
A person’s appeal doesn’t come from dressing up, looking flashy, wearing high-end brands, or putting on perfect makeup.
I don’t sense anything particularly captivating from your question.
Humility and sincerity are important.
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I’m Shingo Lee, a columnist.
It’s simply a matter of personal preference, so I don’t think he necessarily looks down on women who carry less expensive bags or considers them cheap.
I hardly own any designer items myself, so maybe I’m just being envious, but if someone’s opinion of you is swayed by a designer bag, doesn’t that say something about them? Even with a Longchamp bag, truly classy people still give off an impressive, unapproachable aura.
That said, if you want your bag to stand out, I’d probably go with Loewe.
It feels more distinctive than Prada, and its classic styles aren’t too obscure or overly common. I’d avoid Hermès, though—it might come across as trying too hard.
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I’m Fuu, a column writer.
If that’s how you feel, why not just stop pretending from the start, skip the unnecessary “I’m devoted to you” act, and meet your papa (a male supporter) carrying a luxury bag and wearing designer clothes?
The papas who can’t handle that will naturally drift away.
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I’m Kazu, a male member.
I really don’t think that’s being said at all.
A designer handbag isn’t going to change your life. A truly great woman is still a great woman, even if she carries an eco-bag.
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I’m Meg, a female member.
I generally don’t like answering questions I can’t relate to, but since this is my final month, I’ll say this:
There’s nothing but vulgarity coming through in the way you write.
No matter what kind of bag you carry around, if what’s inside doesn’t change, the veneer will come off in an instant.
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I’m Dai, a male member.
Please buy whichever bag you like.
By the way, I get the feeling that women like you may fail to recognize and miss out on promising generous (well-paying) papas, even when they happen to meet one.
When the club ranks women, I also feel that even attractive women who seem overly focused on money are placed in the Gold tier or below.
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I’m in Seattle.
I feel like you should tell Mushi-san, “I can’t buy anything at all ♥ I love you so much and I’m devoted to you, so please help me,” and have him withdraw some cash for you.
It’s important to have a backup, too.
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