Tips Sep 3, 2021 16:36

About how many offers did it take before you found someone you considered a great match? I’d love to hear from both men and women.

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Meg
🏅 修行の身
光と影
Age: 50s 👩 Female Former Universe member
I’m Meg, a female member. It was my first offer, so at the time, I never stopped to wonder whether he was a good one or not. But after becoming an answerer here and reading everyone’s various posts, I’ve come to realize how fortunate I was to receive an offer from such a wonderful person. He’s a papa (a male supporter) I’d want to see even without an allowance—though he always gives me one, of course…
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フラグメーカー
フラグメーカー Male Column Send a reverse offer to this responder
🏅 40歳でリアル異世界転生したオッサン l 元金融マン → 現AI界隈
出張ホストの実技試験合格してるので、対女性への無難な前戯とかマナーに一定の知見あり。
Age: 40s 👨 Male Universe member
I’m Flag Maker, a column writer. My very first offer was to an AV actress I liked, so I struck gold right out of the gate. As for arrangements that continued, I’d make 10–15 offers a year, and maybe two or three of them would work out. As for someone who truly stole my heart, there’s only been one. Our adult relationship has already come to an end, though.
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ダイ
A~Dまで一通りオファーの経験あり、多くても月1程度でLINEはスケジュール調整のみ、スマートに無理なく長期交際するスタイルです。
Age: 50s 👨 Male Universe member
I’m Dai, a male member. I spent a lot of time figuring things out during my first year, so I didn’t have much luck finding a good match. The only woman I continued seeing after a second meeting was the sixth woman I reached out to. Since my second year, I’ve been able to meet around two or three great women each year.
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Fuu
🏅 パパ活歴7年目突入
彼氏/既婚/他パパ/セフレOK/全力応援
Age: 50s 👨 Male Universe member
I’m Fuu, a columnist. After receiving this question, I went back and looked through my offer history. For reference: the woman from my 10th offer had a great personality and was a good physical match—we’ve been seeing each other for over three years and are still together. The woman from my 17th offer was also great in both personality and physically, but after a year, she ended things with me. It’s all a matter of luck, so I think it varies from person to person.
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カズ
Age: Private 👨 Male Universe member
I’m Kazu, a male member. Looking back at the results, the first offer worked out. But the offer that felt right from the start was my 14th. I’ve been seeing both women for over a year.
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