I’m Fuu, a column writer.
If that’s how you feel, it sounds like your only option is to ask your partner to agree to no kissing.
I think your papa (a male supporter) would probably feel disappointed because his need for validation—feeling accepted—wouldn’t be satisfied.
I’m not judging you, but that’s a preconceived notion. It’s something you’ve decided for yourself:
“I only want to kiss someone I love.”
“I only want to have H with someone I love.”
“I have to remain a virgin until I get married.”
Rather than setting your own limits, it seems more enjoyable to let go of those preconceptions and free yourself from those constraints. How far you choose to go and enjoy yourself is entirely up to you.
By the way, men’s saliva contains substances that arouse women, so it has been scientifically proven that deep kissing flips the switch for sexual desire.
I ended things with a girl who didn’t allow kissing. I wasn’t fulfilled, and I didn’t feel the arrangement was worth the allowance.
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I’m Dai, a male member.
Kissing isn’t an absolute must, but it is a turnoff when I try to kiss her and she turns her face away.
To be honest, I don’t really understand what feels good about deep kissing itself, but I wouldn’t rate a woman negatively for being willing to deep-kiss.
When kissing while I’m inside her, women who enjoy kissing tend to tighten up, which feels good, so I’ll actively kiss women like that.
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I’m Ferrari Marika.
↑That sounds kind of erotic, lol.
Anyway, I agree that kissing is like an on switch for sexual desire. Just kissing is enough to get me wet. But of course, that only happens when it’s someone I really love.
Still, when we’re having sex, I want him to suck my breasts.
Marika
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I’m Hikōki, a male member.
You don’t have to kiss me. If you try, it’s okay to turn your face away.
With women who usually don’t kiss, the way they kiss becomes a good gauge of how they’re feeling.
I watch for things like kisses on my sweaty back or around my armpits, and whether someone who normally doesn’t kiss starts kissing passionately. Then I decide whether to change the pace or keep going.
It’s kind of nice when a girl who doesn’t usually kiss starts opening up like that.
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I’m Flagmaker, a column writer.
I’m really into deep, messy kissing. Sorry.
Everyone does it for me, but maybe they secretly hate it? lol
Kissing is what flips my switch.
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I’m Shingo Lee (Shingori), a columnist.
Men generally want to kiss every girl they’re sexually attracted to, and I think women feel the same way.
That said, women tend to have a stronger sense of sexual self-protection, so I think most are probably like you, questioner.
If you’re a man, you have a fairly strong sense of self-protection.
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I’m Kazu, a male member.
Since it’s basically just mucous-membrane contact and not particularly pleasurable, I’m not really a fan of it either. Even if I like someone, I only do it to keep them happy.
I agree with what Mac said about kissing during penetration being enjoyable. Ideally, I’d like to pleasure both the upper and lower areas with my penis, but since I only have one, I use my mouth as a substitute.
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This is Mac, a male member.
I’m not a fan of kissing either, since I don’t get any pleasure from it in itself. The only kind I like is kissing during penetration in the missionary position—it makes me feel like I’m taking complete control, conquering both her mouth and her pussy.
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