I’m Dai, a male member.
There was one time when someone I’d been getting along well with suddenly disappeared from my life.
The warning sign was probably that, although we kept saying we wanted to see each other, our schedules stopped lining up altogether.
She stopped replying to my LINE messages, and before I knew it, I’d been blocked.
She’d been motivated—she even had new photos taken for Universe—but no offers came in, and before long, she had left the club as well.
Maybe she joined another club.
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This is Mack, a male member.
Girls who have a specific goal, like paying off debt or saving for tuition, may be desperate until they reach that target—but once they do, they probably lose their motivation.
At the same time, they come to their senses and go into “rewriting the past” mode, thinking, “Wait, what was I doing?” Naturally, they cut off contact with the papa (male supporter) who helped them, without even saying goodbye.
Those who leave because they’ve found a boyfriend or gotten married will probably contact him to say thanks for everything.
There’s gratitude, of course, but I think it also serves as a warning: “Don’t come after me.”
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I’m a male member, Paper Airplane.
If there are that many girls like that, it means you’re mostly misunderstanding things and haven’t gotten genuinely close to even one of them.
Once you become genuinely close, no girl would do something like that, right?
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I’m だて◎ゆめ, a male member.
I’ve had a similar experience too.
It was with a married woman in her mid-30s, Type C, whom I met initially. She suddenly quit a few days after we met, leaving a complaint behind as a parting gift. Since it wasn’t true, I asked the club to look into it, but they couldn’t get in touch with her after she withdrew… That was how it ended（笑）
Apparently, she said she had spoken to me gently…
But I was thinking, “What exactly was gentle about it??”
We’re both old enough to know better, so I felt like saying, “Just be more direct.”（笑）
Could it be that someone was trying to tell you something indirectly?（笑）
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I’m Kazu, a male member.
If it happened once or twice, you may have simply encountered women who happened to be like that. But if women often suddenly stop responding, I think you should take a hard look at yourself and consider whether you’re making them put up with something.
If this happens frequently, I get the feeling that they’re only putting up with the relationship until they find another man.
A sign may be that they seem to be enduring something when you meet them in person.
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