I’m the one who just asked about the same man repeatedly making daytime offers. Once again, I declined, saying “because of work,” and asked the club to relay that to him.

This is Mac, a male member. He’s married and always prioritizes his own schedule, so isn’t he probably making offers to about three women he has saved as favorites at the same time? Staff: “I think the scheduling would be difficult.” Man: “Just ask anyway—it’s worth a shot.” Also, men who run businesses and manage employees can get used to thinking that people should adjust their schedules to fit theirs. It’s not necessarily that they’re arrogant; it may simply be a habit. Even if you took paid leave to go on a date with him, the scheduling would probably be just as difficult next time, so it wouldn’t last. Doesn’t that mean he’s the type who enjoys one-time encounters with lots of women?