I find my daytime job fulfilling, but I feel suffocated.
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The real me likes going out with hosts and things like that. But at my daytime job, everyone is so serious. Above all, they work diligently even for low pay and despite being physically exhausted. The real me is greedy about money, loves going to spas, and is a self-centered kind of person.
It makes me feel that mistress arrangements and nightlife work really are out of step with mainstream society.
They may be fine while you’re young, but you can’t keep doing them once you get older. Japan really does put beauty on a pedestal, doesn’t it?
Do all of you have a conscience?
I’m Shingo Lee, a columnist.
If you’re working a job that’s “fulfilling but low-paying,” why not get a day job that’s either “fulfilling and well-paying” or “unfulfilling but well-paying”?
You look down on the people around you, but in the end, I think you’re simply unable to live within your means despite having limited abilities.
Being young is highly valued, but if you don’t grow as a person while you’re young, you’ll just become an old piece of trash.
If you squander your money while you’re young, what will you have left once you lose your youth?
I recommend thinking carefully about how you live.
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I’m Dai, a male member.
If I had more money than I knew what to do with and could spend all my time going out with hosts, I’d probably end up feeling empty and bored with it.
It’s fun to go out occasionally because I work hard at my day job.
I’m not really sure what you’re asking with “Do you have a conscience?”
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I’m Meg, a female member.
Do you have any female friends who understand that this isn’t the real you—friends you can talk to and really connect with?
There must be quite a few Universe members who have worked in the nightlife industry while also holding down a daytime job… It would be nice if you could connect with someone.
If you keep suppressing your desire to let loose, the stress may start taking a toll on your body too.
Before that happens, let’s make sure we take little breaks and enjoy life in a healthy way.
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I’m Ayase Nana ♡
Even for someone as slow as me, I couldn’t understand what you were trying to say…
Are you a foreigner? You should stay away from papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan).
Everyone wants to make money easily and have fun. But if that’s all there is, relationships between people won’t run smoothly. The world is made up of puzzle pieces that fit together perfectly, so you can’t just do whatever you want.
I think being a mistress or working in the nightlife industry is ultimately a sales job, don’t you? You have to skillfully guide the conversation along naturally.
That’s something you clearly can’t do.
And yes, I do have a conscience. Since I receive money, I believe it’s my way of thanking the gentlemen to make them feel good, both physically and emotionally.
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I’m Date◎Yume, a male member.
That’s a good question（笑）
I think everyone has two sides.
Going out to host clubs（笑）
Well, I suppose there’s nothing wrong with that...
But if an arrangement as a mistress or a nightlife job becomes too out of step with society’s expectations, I feel it could quickly end in the arrangement being terminated or the business failing（笑）
If your daytime job is something you find rewarding, I think you should strive to master it.
You’ll probably start seeing a whole different world.
Let’s keep doing our best...
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Why not master the nightlife business and become an owner? You can continue doing it even when you’re no longer young. It’s a business that’s easily affected by the economy, but I think it can be rewarding. Though I imagine a low-paying daytime job would be dozens of times easier.
Marika
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I’m Kazu, a male member.
It seems you came up with a question just to make your point, and even if someone answered it, it doesn’t seem like it would do anyone any good.
You can still have a mistress even when you’re older, and I do have a conscience.
I think you should see a mental health professional.
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