Tips Jul 29, 2021 21:24

Is ¥50,000 for three hours, including two rounds without protection, cheap or expensive?

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He told me to buy alcohol and snacks at the convenience store first, saying he’d give me the money later. Can you really call that considerate? Honestly, I want to break things off. He’s a surgeon.
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I’m Tetsu, a male member. Are you talking about some soapland? If you don’t like it, you should break up.
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I’m Nana Ayase ♡ What’s with that arrogant guy? He’s probably lying about being a surgeon too. Break up with him already. He finishes inside you without protection, takes no responsibility, and just disappears? This isn’t about the money.
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Meg
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Age: 50s 👩 Female Former Universe member
I’m Meg, a female member. You came here to ask because you felt he wasn’t being considerate, right? You should distance yourself from someone like that as soon as possible. You don’t need to let yourself become unhappy too.
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If you want to break things off, I think you should. You’re a surgeon, you say? If you’re getting ¥50,000 for three hours, that might be just a little more than a doctor’s hourly rate for side work. Since it’s easier and comes with less responsibility than working as a doctor, you could say the allowance is relatively high. Taking your self-esteem and everything else into account, if you can’t accept the situation, then I think you should quit. Ultimately, though, you need to decide for yourself. Marika P.S. That man really is no good, though. He seems to think of you as nothing more than a way to satisfy his sexual urges. If you both saw each other exclusively, had consensual unprotected sex, were highly compatible and always went for a second round, and you enjoyed buying your favorite drinks and snacks with your papa’s money and spending dates holed up in a hotel, then the same arrangement might work out. But at least from your post, it doesn’t sound like you’re satisfied with any part of it. You’re better off breaking up with him as soon as possible. He’ll probably treat the next girl just as carelessly and keep switching from one to another, so it likely won’t last.
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Fuu
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Age: 50s 👨 Male Universe member
I’m Fuu, a columnist. Honestly, I don’t understand why the person asking the question hasn’t broken things off. As an aside, it’s pretty impressive that a man can drink and still go two rounds in three hours. Maybe he’s young? Is the reason she doesn’t want to end things because he’s a surgeon? I wonder what the person asking the question really wants. A dating club isn’t a brothel, so women have the right to choose, too. If you don’t like something, you can simply say no—such as, “I don’t want you to finish inside.” If the reason you can’t refuse is that you don’t have another papa (a male supporter) or any other offers, then I think you should weigh the money against the situation with this papa and decide for yourself how much you’re willing to put up with. If you can’t tolerate it, end things.
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だて◎ゆめ
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I’m だて◎ゆめ, a male member. I think it’s fine for you to decide for yourself whether it’s expensive or cheap. Also, I’m an old man, not handsome, and one of the poorer members of the dating club, so I’ve never said anything like this surgeon did. In the end, I think it’s best for you to make your own judgment.
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